At this point I am used to rejection, I have been rejected a little over a hundred times, by cute girls, ugly girls, fat girls, girls from all kinds of ethnicity, older women, mentally ill girls, I've tried dating sites, dating apps, just going out to random public places and bars, I've tried my work area, my university, they always say shit like "I'm really not interested in dating" "you're just like a brother to me" or "It would spoil our friendship" I've even tried changing my personality and fitting in, but non of it worked. I'm 24 and I'm still single, I'm convinced I just need a better job and be rich, no woman wants an ugly guy who's broke.
But what really pissed me off a few weeks ago was I was hanging out with a female friend (she rejected me twice) and we started to talk about relationships, she said "Oh anon, you're a really funny guy, I'm surprised you haven't found someone yet" I just told her how hard I tried, and that I'll never find a girl I'll just die alone she told me that there is always someone out there, and I just told her shes wrong, in which she said I shouldn't be so pessimistic, that "dating and sex is just overrated" this is coming from a girl who rejected me saying she wasn't the type to date but then dated a guy 2 weeks later, she dated over two dozen guys, fucked total strangers, and had one night stands. Fucking hell I hate this bullshit, I bet you when I get my degree and start earning money these bitches are gonna think they're gonna settle down for me but nope! Fuck em! I'm just gonna fuck escorts if it comes to that.
I can't believe that people still believe the "There's always someone for everyone!" fairy tale bullshit in 20 fucking 15
>Jus bee urself ;^)
At this point I don't even know who I am anymore, I've pretended to be so many different personalities just to get girls, I'm friends with s hardcore conservative single mom, a self proclaim anarchist, a punk rock chick, and liberal feminist. They all just seem to like me as a friend, some of them even tried hooking me up with their friends which never worked. I honestly feel like girls won't date me because of my looks.
I don't think I'm hideous or anything plus I work out, but I've been rejected by fat chicks that most of you guys would find repulsive.
>I honestly feel like girls won't date me because of my looks.
Such a suspicion is becoming increasingly true. Think about it. Modern society depends so much on a close-up shot of one's face that you get swiped left instantly if you don't fit the bill. Just my guess though.
You're kind of right though, I always swipe left on girl who are even considered slightly attractive because I know they'll just ignore me. The sad is when ever I do match with a girl I can barely hold a conversation.
I feel ya OP. Turning 24 myself and have only been on a few dates. I have one girl now who whines all the time about how Chad ignored her or stopped talking to her and makes retarded comments like "I wish I had someone to do X with". They will never understand how good and easy they have it compared to us. I'm not even ugly either. I've been going to the gym for a year now and i've seen decent results. I dress nicely. I've been told several times that i'm cute but this translates to nothing because not even average girls or below will accept me.
I can't blame women for having high standards, I mean if you had the choice to date and fuck hot girls would you really settle for the average or below average girls? Its even worse if a guy is short or ugly, they can't fix that.
I don't mind wearing condoms, if I don't find a girl by the time I get my degree in architect then fuck it, it would be a small victory for me instead of letting these women win and settle down for me because no guy wants them.
Problem is they don't just want to be fucked. They want a relationship, however they fool themselves into thinking that the next Chad won't just fuck them and leave them like the previous one. And so they're stuck in their own misery, completely oblivious to all the real viable options they have around them which they won't see until they are 30 and they realize that almost no one wants them anymore.