Why is it that in a relationship the guy has to spend money to show he gives a shit about a girl?
Honestly robots why would you want a gf?All girls expect you to have money to spend on her, and it's almost never the opposite.
Why would anyone want this?
>ideas of "love" force fed to us our whole lives
"Love" is fucking expensive anon. Finding love is fucking expensive. Dating is fucking expensive (for a guy). It just sounds like a shitty deal to me, I'm not made of money.
>desire to procreate/fight/build
>idea of "love/legacy/greatness" fed to us our entire lives
Not saying you're wrong in any way, but it's kind of the same reason we humans do anything -- get a job, go to college, race cars, shitpost, etc. One biological urge, I'd argue, is not universally superior or inferior to another.
my sister had a NEET boyfriend she would spend money on
paid for dinners bought him stuff
then she came out of the closet so now that I think about it she was probably paying him to be her beard
You are right.
It would be foolish to bet everything.
If you had not the means to pay it all back.
Now i am forever in debt.
At least betting was fun.
>spending money to show love
Thats the sad truth, 9 out of 10 relationships are like that.
I am engaged and my fiance and I have been together for ten years.
The truth is this, finding a gf is the worst thing in the world. It's not fun. The going out and the partying and the casualness of a relationship is shit and totally overrated.
What isn't overrated and is actually underrated by society at large is the depth of the relationship and the experience of knowing someone on such a level that you know what they are going to say before they say it. It's difficult to explain to someone who has not experienced it. Having a relationship where you know that there is no judgement, no expectations, no rules really, is the best part.
Oh yea, having sex with someone who always wants to fuck you is nice too.
>9 out of 10 relationships are like that
My sisters going through that right now, shes getting everything she wants. She goes to themeparks, gets her rent payed, gets a new tv and couch. All without spending a dime. I wish i was an attractive girl so someone could spend all their money on me.
>had a gf for 6 years and havnt spent any money on her other than flowers for the first three valentines days before I got too lazy even for that
go dutch on everything and do creative things for birthdays and christmases
I don't mind treating my girl with something nice since I want to make her happy.
However, if she EVER takes for granted that I will pay something for her, I'm getting the fuck outta there.