hey let's try something different. let's all talk about reasons why we love women, or real life stories about women that are positive.
>be me last weekend
>be visiting one of my old high school friends at his college
>im a NEET loser and he's my only friend left who still talks to me, although i only had 3 friends to begin with
>friend and i pregame in his apartment then go out and try to get in college parties
>cant get in without girls
>we run into a group of four girls and my friend hits on one of them successfully and ask if he wants to go to a party with them
>i was just standing there and hadn't talked yet so she says i can come too if i want
>friend says we'd love to and we head to the party
>at the party now, and my friend takes the chick he was hitting on into a room to smash
>im kinda pissed because now im just standing in the corner of the party with the other three girls
>i am just standing there while they have a conversation, i still havent said a word to any of them
>cant tell two of the girls are noticeably uncomfortable with me there, but one girl, who i thought was the cutest, keeps looking at me and smiling
>eventually she turns to me and says, "Jeez, you sure are quiet, kid. What's your name?"
>Voice shaking, I say, "Hehe, y-yeah. Sorry about that. The name's anon."
>She says "nice to meet you, my name's Georgia."
>I say, Oh like the state. Or, the country, I guess. Well, both really, heh."
>All 3 girls burst out laughing
>Georgia continues to help me break out of my shell
>Literally JUST BEE-ING MYSELF and they are laughing at every single thing im saying, even when im not even trying to be funny!
>At the end of the night, they ask to take a picture with me
>I've literally never taken a picture with a girl who I'm not related to so I'm positively ecstatic
>super embarassing but I actually hoverhanded the girls because I was so fucking nervous that my hands were shaking and I didn't want them to feel me trembling
>But, get this, right when they're taking the picture, Georgie leans in and kisses me on the cheek
Before this, I had never even HUGGED a girl. Fuck, I've never even shaken HANDS with a girl! This was so fucking overwhelming that I actually got an erection from it, not even fucking joking. Which is a huge relief, since I had been getting into trap and femboy shit lately so it's good to know I'm still attracted to good old-fashioned chicks with vaginas.
>at the end of the night, we say our goodbyes
>Georgie says, "anon, you are so freaking adorable."
I know this is pathetic, but this was the best night of my life so far. Thank you, Georgie. I hope I run into you again someday.
>unironic exclamation marks
>tfw never even talked to a female besides my mother
>unironic exclamation marks
yeah that's something i need to work on it's lame as fuck. it's an old habit though.
>tfw never even talked to a female besides my mother
dude that was pretty much me before last weekend. but im still so fucking high on life just from having a single solid interaction with a human female. don't give up man
>laughing at every single thing im saying, even when im not even trying to be funny
>anon, you are so freaking adorable
CUCKED HARD they were laughing at your autism OP
I went to a barcade last weekend with some friends. As a manlet loser now in his late 20s, I've begun to think that women no longer want to toy with me, that I'm no longer even friendzone material. Thankfully, that was proven wrong. I was at the bar drinking a drink when this one woman stood next to me, brushing her bare shoulder and leg against me. Made some small talk and then I left. Later in the night I was back at the bar and she came up next to me again and did the same thing. You could say, "Maybe she was interested in you," but I saw her throughout the night. She was there with two Chads taller and more attractive than I am; she was just toying with me. Was nice, at least.
Some other girl asked if I could watch her food while she stepped away for a bit and I did. When she came back she thanked me and rubbed my shoulder. Was nice.
You autist piece of shit. Those whores were laughing at you, not with you. And that kiss? It was a joke as well. They were trying to make you sperg out even more with that kiss so that they have something more to laugh about.
Dumb whore was using you to validate her sense of self worth. It's called stringing you along. She wanted you to want her so that she could reject you. Hope you didn't give her that much attention anon.
Well yes, of course she was validating her sense of self-worth. I mean, she's at a bar with guys she knows she can fuck on a Friday night. I don't mind her stringing me along. I gave her some attention, though she started all the convos we had.
this negative attitude isn't going to do you any favors in life. i had a good time with those girls and i can assure you they weren't laughing at me and that kiss was not a joke.
excellent quads. and yeah i am way too socially anxious to approach the subject of sex with a girl. so there's no way of knowing whether or not they would have had sex with me. baby steps, man, baby steps.
Having someone who you truly care about and are attracted to fall asleep on your arm while you're watching some irrelevant movie is a fantastic feeling, and I'd love to feel it again sometime
Natasha is nice. She's soft and funny and doesn't mind listening to me talk about galactic fighting circuits.
>good old-fashioned chicks
Why would these "good old-fashioned chicks" pay attention to a fuckard like you when they are numerous chads and normalfags for them at this party?
You at least realize they were laughing at you, not with you, right?
If their friend went off to fuck a guy she just met, chances are her friends are no different and that pic they took was of just some spaz creeping on them and not taking hints that he was not wanted. They probably still laugh at it to this day and that stupid look on your face of when that girl kissed you.
Pic related is you.
why the fuck are you all saying this? you weren't there. they were not laughing at me. why would they take a picture with me and kiss me on the cheek if they didn't like me?
What the fuck is wrong with you my man. You're whiteknighting whores, who laughed at your expense, on an anonymous imageboard with zero chance of them fucking you. You have attained the highest levels of manginadom
OP is so delusional right now it's fucking crazy
alright how am I delusional at all? id say you are the delusional one, you are projecting with the force of a thousand suns.
these girls literally only talked to me all night. if they wanted Chad they could have gone after any of the Chads at the party but they didn't.
Also the kiss on the chick didn't mean much. Don't look to into it. It's like kissing a child on the cheek. A non-threatening, cute little child...
Anyways, hopefully you can use this experience as a stepping stone. Good luck, and next time try to be more assertive.
Just want to get this thread back on track
Was hoping to find something to add to my folder here, but its just the usual negativity. I'm bitter and jaded too, but there's no need to get so angry about it, anon
I'm going to weigh in on my thoughts on OP's story. To be honest even what happened to OP wouldn't happen to me because of how unattractive I am. However, the whole story reads as something that would happen to someone who is "cute" and "shy" and therefore "a beta manchild"
So OP, I do think the girls did "like" you in some manner, meaning they didn't really have hostile thoughts against you. However, they didn't respect you. They didn't respect your essence, and what you stand for as a man. In fact, I hardly think they even looked at you as a man.
But as you said before, it's a step in the right direction, but please, please do not think of these situations as being more than that what they really were.
It's not over till the fat lady has your dick in her pussy tbh fam
There is a difference between redpilling him and not trying to turn him into a jaded asshole like the rest of us.
No doubt the girls didn't see OP as a fuckable person. He was more like a cute puppy that entertained then for the night. But if OP can work on his flitting skills, he can definitely make some magic happen.
Don't fall to far into the rabbit hole. But don't listen to everything outside of it either. Protect yourself before everything else and try to assess the situation and body language of the people around you.
>dude just because she was with taller more attractive guys doesn't mean she wasn't into you
If I were reading this comment on any site other than /r9k/, I might agree with you that this was a legitimate possibility.
>why the fuck are you all saying this?
Jesus Christ, man. I really hope you are a troll.
In case you are not, PLEASE DO NOT TAKE PICTURES WITH NORMALFAG GIRLS THAT YOUR ARE NOT FRIENDS WITH AND KNOW INTIMATELY.
>Tell grill at work to buy me a belated 21st birthday beer half jokingly
>She says sure
>Work at airport so all the bars are expensive as fuck
>She gets a tequila sunrise and says If i want her to buy me a drink it has to be that
>"Hey I wont turn down free booze"
>Drink comes out to $14 something a piece
>She doesn't give a shit it was a post birthday drink and still buys me 2-3 beers after that
>Gets me food
>We drink and barhop around the airport for 4 hours
All grills aren't as bad as you say robots. She's pretty bro tier.
what is making you guys say this shit? i must not have written what happened for well because i dont understand how you are getting this out of what i considered to be a really pleasant interaction
Eh, sorry buddy but if you're a NEET hugless virgin, that doesn't just happen and when it does it's definitely not genuine, it seems like one of the usual cruel jokes women play on spergs like us.
>her perfume makes my head spin
>i tell her she smells good all the time
>she says really
>she holds up her wrist to me
>pretend my beta selves arent doing cartwheels and go for sniff
>eyes roll back
>buh gawd, straight from the source
>notice im sporting semi with precum
After this, i cleverly developed an inside joke between us where I call her "stinky." And she would say "yeah but you like it so..." and Id go for another sniff.
Fuck I want to smell her again but she is across the country.
>Probably not lauhing AT him, as in ''HAHA YOU'RE SO FUCKING AUTISTIC OMG''
Maybe not like that, but they were probably laughing at his personality/awkwardness rather than his jokes.
Though sometimes people don't realize that you're really like that and think you do it as joke, which makes it really hard to tell that they aren't laughing with you, because they actually think themselves that they are.
>pay hooker to suck my pee pee
>was worth every penny
this what you want OP?
>be a kv
>one day some good friends of mine bring over some girls
>they seem alright, not prejudiced against me for some reason
>one of them seems pretty open and actually nice to me
>fast forward some time to one of parties and the girl starts crying for whatever reason and comes up to me, hugs me tight and says some shit along "anon, thank you for being here for me"
>i have no idea what the fuck is going on
>she's hammered hard
>on the way back she takes me by hand and actually brightens up
>fast forward some time
>prom time comes up
>of course I have nobody to ask out
>don't want to appear like a fag so ask the girl out because she's pretty much the only female acquaintance I have
>she's absolutely okay with it and agrees
Gotta point out that at that time I wanted it purely for the reason of not being alone there. I had zero romantic interest in her nor did I want any.
>after I go home from one of the meetups with my friends and her (she and the other girl were there too very often since the first time) she sent me a message that went something like "are you home safe, anon?"
>we'd start texting pretty much daily, especially during the nights (I had sleeping problems at the time) and most often she initiated
>needless to say this made me feel unexpectedly very good
>start having feelings for her
>new years party comes up
>we meet there and have fun together
>she gives me a kiss which essentially makes me fall in love with her hard
>she also pretty much breaks me out of my shell
>fast forward some time
it turns out I was a rebound from her previous relationship
she still loved the other guy and treated me more like a brother
she started to sorta get back with the previous guy
all that right in front of my fucking eyes, as if she enjoyed looking at me confused and heartbroken
If you want good things about women then make sure to not read the spoilers
I love my mom tbh. She is a very compassionate and loving person. She also is very intelligent and is one of the only people I feel I can talk about cool subjects that interest me like documentaries, science, politics etc without feeling like I am overwhelming someone or being "lame".
Also she hates western feminists and is very compassionate towards the problems of men. I remember once she was watching a documentary where a man was talking about how he lost his job after the financial collapse and his wife shortly divorced him. She was bawling her eyes out and was calling the woman a cold-hearted bitch and all that
Why do people buy puppies if they are going to abandon them when they turn into old dogs
I love my mom and my sister. They've always supported me even though I've done fuck all for them.
I also don't have anything against women in general, though I don't like interacting with them since they're to well adjusted for me to understand them, and they only reason they ever talk to me after getting to know me is politeness. This goes for most men too, but not all.
I don't know but I'm pretty sure that cunt was a borderline disorder type. Too bad I found out after the whole thing.
Needless to say I'm absolutely scared of every single girl who remotely resembles her in any way.
And for whatever reason this seems to be only the type that doesn't find me disgusting and gives me a chance.
Yeah, but also in other ways. There was this pic on r9k that showed BPD along with 2 other types of girls, and BPD described her spot on. Wikipedia seems to also give a decent description minus the fact that she was a virgin.
>Mate you are worth your weight in gold
I'm a bit of a skeltal...
It's been a long time ago. The scar still remains and affect me but I'm not thinking about the whole thing much anymore. She's failing at life along with that guy she got back with for all I know.
say this is true
y r people getting mad about this
this is a genuinely nice thing, they could have LITERALLY told OP to get the fuck out now because he's a weirdo creep.
and OP is a weirdo
but she was nice to you, even if she was pretty magnanimous about it, I mean she could have socially slit OP's throat if she wanted to due to how beta he is, but she opted to break OP in like a beta horse.
this isn't manipulative, she's not trying to get anything from OP, she didn't try to convince him of his non betaness or anything like that.
i mean really there was 3 options:
1. they tell OP to fuck off
2. they ignore OP 100% UNTIL he fucks off.
3. they play nice and indulge the beta weirdo.
They used him as a fucking puppy. You know, like people who just go to a fucking zoo where you can interact with some smaller animals. Look at them and laugh.
I mean this kinda depends on what girls those were. I know some girls who hang out with Chads but are genuinely the caring mother type.
I know what you're talking about. Here's my story
>be invited to a friend's house party
>some girls are there
>some time later some guys and girls move to one of the rooms to listen to slow music and dance to it in dim lights
>meanwhile I'm playing some vidya with some other guy
>gotta actually go to that room for a sec to find something and come back
>go in there minding my business
>dark as fuck so it makes finding the thing all the harder
>one of the girls turns to me and says something that rings in my ears to this day
>"what are you doing here anon? can't you see you don't belong here?"
Yeah... This is one of those things that broke me forever.
>be me a month or two ago
>about to kill myself, check into psych ward
>my mother makes a huge fucking deal about it and it becomes about her and how sad she is that her kid is depressed
>my sister actually visits
>tells me she has had shit like this for years and wished I had talked to her about it
>sis goes talk to psychiatrist
>does the paperwork and admin for me because she knows her way around the ward
>brings me fresh laundry and shit
>steps up between me and my mom and tells her I need time and to fuck off (couldn't do it myself)
>now I'm out and in therapy and she calls every week to see how I am doing
I wish I had talked to her earlier.
Whatever pleb, get a hobby you oxytocin ridden fuck. Thats the best night of your life?
NO! This thread is UNACCEPTABLE.
Not because I hate women. But because you fuckers don't deserve talk about all the good women can do. I don't want any of you to start sweetening up to women after all the shit you've pulled over the last few years. To you women should all be gold digging, heart breaking, monstrous creatures and just stay like that.
>get new job in fast food
>first day goes terrible
>moving slow, making mistakes
>place is crowded
>all my coworkers are no help and rude as fuck
>they either give me 1 word answers or completely ignore me when I ask questions
>whenever I'm doing anything, like washing dishes, they would just come sit there and scowl at me
>don't even say a word, just glare at me
>take every dish I washed and re wash them as if I somehow did it wrong
>when I ask if I did something wrong just get ignored
>An hour in, they tell me to work cash register at the most busy period of the day without ever explaining how it works or anything
>coworker just sits next to me without explaining anything, or offering any assistance at all except to tell me I'm doing everything wrong
>i tell him maybe he should take over since its busy and there's only 1 register and everyone in line looks pissed off
>finally chick shows up
>she's the first person to actually talk to me in full sentences instead of grunts
>helps me out whenever I need it
>genuinely just a nice person
>answers all my questions, and makes sure to show me and be sure I understand
>in just 20 minutes taught me more than everyone else had in the last 4 hours of my shift
What a great person. Women aren't inherently bad. Also she doesn't seem to mind how awkward and clumsy I am. I wish there were more people like that.
>>one of the girls turns to me and says something that rings in my ears to this day
>>"what are you doing here anon? can't you see you don't belong here?"
Did literally anyone else give a fuck you were there? Probably not, don't take stacies seriously
Fuck her dude. You know you. She read whatever one dimensional view she had of you and spat it out. Maybe if she got to know you she wouldn't say that.
What I'm saying is these things each and all happened to me and I'm slowly but surely become more and more of a Chad. Where it broke you it made me. I only come on this board anymore to try and help you guys out. You are still my bros.
>Tfw I show photos of me when I was 15 to girls and they laugh at how ugly, fat and sad I used to be.
>19 now, everything changed
Also Stacey is ruled by feelings not judgement and her judgement is usually off
Like I've met some Stacey whores who I think have autism, it's sad you guys listen to these types :(
Stacey has told me I have NO chance with girls I ended up seeing
Tl;dr Stacey is literally disgusting and I don't know why any of you bother with those sorts of girls
I get Stacey to give me looks advice, that's about it. Fuck her
I know anon. I got my shit together, at least looks wise. I still can't interact with women though. I have no single female acquaintance thanks to it. I've been genuinely trying, but I just don't click with them.
But women aren't all the same man. Do you bother with MBTIs? I'm an ENFP. The people I'm most compatible with are INTJs and INFJs. Together they make up 2% of the female population. Most girls I meet I won't click with, but with these girls there's magnetism. We just attract each other. Find your type. She'll be out there.
Yeah I seem to click with only one type. And the type is >>23699109 because I'm the same anon.
I just can't make female friends or anything. I feel like I really don't belong in circles where they are. They honestly never really even say hello to me or anything first.
Besides, I've been degrading mentally over the years. I'm getting more impulsive and honestly sometimes act like a fucking asshole to some women, especially the ones I find attractive. I've been trying to fight it though. Their lack of reciprocation on my friendliness kills me though and makes me lose any sort of reason to keep trying to befriend them.
There is an inkling of truth to it though.
People with a very stong E or I or other letter tend to butt heads with those of a different type. If you are a strong I*** and date a strong E*** it can help to know what to watch out for, like leave your I partner home and go out alone being your extroverted self once in a while.
>but with these girls there's magnetism. We just attract each other.
I don't attract any girls at all. They all judge the book by it's cover and absolutely never get to find out what I'm like. And those that do, apparently don't like me enough for a fucking "hello" a day.
Good on you OP.
Don't listen to the virgin cucks in this thread. Most of them wouldn't have had the balls to speak when one of those women had spoken to them first.
Seriously though you should have gotten Georgia's number tbh.
Now, my positive anecdote.
Been with my gf for 4 years, about to get married. I get breakfast in bed usually once a week, got laid before I went to work today. She's my rock.
Well like all types there's a spectrum but personally enfp guys are much better than women. Most enfp girls are total whores.
ENFPs are charming, but get bored quickly. As such, they normally don't have any lifelong hobbies or anything. They life in the future and think with their feelings and tend to lack the structure to really make most of their dreams a reality :// They tend to enjoy the energy of other people a lot and prefer small groups as they want to be able to understand each individual. Understanding is direly important.
I could say more but there's enough on the internet already
I run into people like you guys all the time
>implying if two people answer similarly on a 100 question quiz on the way they it's far fetched they think similarly
I'm extremely social. I apply this model everywhere, because though I hate labeling people. It works. Eerily accurately. The last INFJ girl I talked to, we talked for an hour and she said she felt I'd known her for 10 years. I just understood her that well.
But perhaps they can smell the desperation on you. Or you just look very plain.
It's a really hard idea to understand until you're on the other side.
I had a girl at 15 absolutely all over me and she was cute but I still couldn't do it because she was so desperate it actually gave me a headache being near her. I'm not saying you do it to that extent but no one wants to be around someone who seems desperate
Some women think i'm attractive enough to be swiped right on tinder, so ill thank them for that.
Ah, you remind me a lot of a guy I know. You could be totally different but you just do. Too nice for his own good. He's actually good looking though, but once girls start talking to him they lose interest. He's just the nicest guy and niceness in this day and era is always threatening to girls as it seems disengenuine. You just aren't naturally mean and you hate yourself when you are. Sadly you might not get girls until they're older. Not because they're settling, just they won't pay attention to niceties or intellectualism until they've realised "bad boys" are actually assholes.
That girl smiled at me walking past her on the street. I must look fucking golden.
Oh and always take care of your looks, as Chad likes to tell me, "every superhero needs an outfit"
I know I'm gonna be called a beta faggot for this post, but it really doesn't matter.
>tfw closest friends have always been women
>have had a hard time bonding with men most of my life
>got my first really close male friend 3 years ago, was 18
>tfw always saw men as straightforward, aggressive and simple while women were able to notice and talk about small nuances and finer things in life
Now the close bro I have has probably become my best friend, although it's not quite fair since I no longer live in the same city as my female friends. To add to the MBTI discussion, I'm INFJ and so far I've met no other INFJ as far as I know. There seems to be a lot more women with the type of personality I can appreciate and relate to, though.
It's honestly fucking hard these days. Like we can't be passive, we have to be sexually aggressive, but "play it cool" at the same time. It's a fuck around. I'm not surprised I know so many whores and so many KHVs.
>girls show positive attitude towards you
>b-but they didnt sleep with you!
Even if they did you would write something different to support your shitty attitude, like 'b-but they are whores anyway you autist cuck xD'. Just drop it. If you feel miserable for yourself then at least don't spread it on others that happened to be more fortunate than you. Then again you can write whatever you want, noone on this anime imageboard will be drastically affected by that, heh.
Well from my experiences and Chad's, you're never actually mean. Like you do things that can be interpreted as mean but they aren't sure. It's different for each guy. Maybe you always rock up late. Chad will be aloof to the point you think he's a dick but you don't know. Last week I was catching a train with a girl but saw metro officers as I was going through the ticket gates and told her I'd find her and ran off. She sat there stumped and thought I ditched her until I found her again. It's not like we're intentionally being mean. Some guys just naturally don't do this shit.
On daily encounters i feel good around women especially if they are nice and smile a lot. A right woman can brighten your day just as a bitch can make it a nightmare. To me women are like the worst drug. Coupled with alcohol you're left either devastated or having the best time of your life.
>be good looking so women are either flirty or awkward around me
>always found them as a fun way to pass time and relax my eyes on their cuteness but never really interesting or respect-worthy imo