I think I'm about to ask a girl out soon. What do I say? How do I approach her? What if she thinks I'm ugly? Help me escape the suffering.
>Hey I know we don't really know each other that well, but would you maybe be interested in getting to know each other? Like a date?
That sounds too redundant. I'll ask her in about 20 minutes.
When she says no, internalize that pain. I want you to turn that pain over in your mind and poke it. Feel every crack and crevasse.
Make it yours. Become the master of it.
For next week you will ask out TWO girls. Just walk right up to them in the fucking library or whatever. They will also say no. The week after that you will ask out FOUR girls. The week after that you will ask out SEVEN girls.
No tricks. No script. Just "hi, I thought you were cute and I came over to find out if you would like to go get some coffee and chat with me."
Repeat this pain over and over and over again.
Until you realize it cannot hurt you anymore. Then you will ask out 1 girl every day for the rest of your life until someone says yes. Which will happen way sooner than you think.
Then invite her back to your place to cuddle. Not fuck, not chat. This is important. "Want to watch netflix and cuddle?"
Congratulations, robot. You are on your way to getting fucked.
You were making a point until
>hi, I thought you were cute and I came over to find out if you would like to go get some coffee and chat with me
If you wanna get friendzoned or called a creep sure, say that shit by all means. Other than that, just saying hi, talking casually and asking a bit about her is a much better route. Make her feel comfortable when you ask her out, dont do it out of the blue or even worse, compliment her when you dont know her.
Complimenting a woman is a mistake in general.
I didn't do it. I was going to just ask her after class. She's getting coffee or something with a friend now. How do I just talk to her? She's shy as fuck and never talks. How the fuck do you just casually talk to girls?
You dont need more than 2 minutes. If you take too long you risk fucking it up. But dont do it in one or two lines, that's retarded. Even the Chaddests of Chads would have a high failure rate doing that.
Getting a gf is hard. Talking to stranger girls isnt.
I learnt this not long ago after years of complaining about tfw no gf. Turns out talking to random girls takes minimal effort and the mistakes one tends to make are pretty obvious after trying a couple of times.