I have a bf but no friends right now. I'm very introverted. Don't even like having Steam friends most of the time. I'm making my bf leave me alone this weekend. Last saw him on Tuesday. He lives and works one of his jobs 40 minutes away. He's quitting that one and moving in with me for a bit before our three-week trip at the end of the year. He'll be here for at least most of January, but I'll be able to make him fuck off to his dad's place part of the time. I'm a little stressed about having someone in my swamp so much.
haven't had a friend in about 2 years, only interaction is with family members who i don't even want to speak to anyway.
i'm mostly numb to it though, it doesn't really bother me that much.
10, and it's only getting worst and worst as time goes by. 10 years ago I still had hope but no, once you're a neet, you stay neet. Next step will be homelessness I suppose.
wish I had a qt gf but other than that I am content robots.
>never had a friend
>never had a GF
>i still have my dog and i love him but i don't think that counts
about a 9,5/10 i'd say
For someone with social anxiety, failed attempts at interaction can be traumatic and cause them to become more reclusive for a while, and even avoid the place it happened indefinitely.
just had a comfy nightwalk, listening to music, alone in the city where I'm studying, which made the loneliness "enjoyable" for a short while
REEEEEEEEEEEE GET THE FUCK OFF THE BOARD THEN.
NO NORMIES ALLOWED
Have you thought about trying a course at a community college? If you're poor, you should qualify for a Pell grant. You just need to fill out the FAFSA at the beginning of next year. There's also stuff you could study on your own. It can be fun once you get a good calendar/to-do list working. You have time to fill in your math gaps before next fall semester if you don't want to waste time on remedial math classes. Start at zero on Khan Academy and work through it all. And also watch mathbff on yotube because she's a qt and Khan's videos are sometimes lacking.
That moment when you think how still a huge normie you were when 5 or 6/10, although you already felt lonely then... Long gone now.
I met someone on /soc/. He promised it would be okay if i was frozen and silent the whole time. After getting together a few times as friends, he was infatuated because I'm a qt, and asked to be my bf. Now I have a big spoon to cuddle with.
Sometimes people bump into me on the street like I don't even exist. They shrug it off and continue walking with saying a thing.
No one to confide in, in the real world. As I sleep I like to think my life is like the movie Avatar. Maybe my host is enjoying itself out there somewhere.
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try going somewhere you will be forced meeting and interacting with other people like a job or studies, a club, etc,..
Don't feel any urge to get a gf, train to be extremely open-minded about sex.
(You have to feel like sending nudes is a friendship thing)
if they ask about your previous relationships, say you were not interested in it and that you rejected offers. (make it look like it was weird or dumb girls)
Never forget to act cool and not desperate about having or not a gf.
I have friends
I've had a gf, and gone on several dates
But nobody has ever loved me and no girl has liked me for more than a month
I suck at everything I do. I'm ugly. I hate my friends, who all have gfs and have to bring them around everytime we hang out. At which point things are always at least mildly sexual.
I'm a failure and I'll never stop failing. Sure, I got fit, but what is it worth? Nobody cares. Nobody cares that I may have gotten more charismatic. I get anxious when it comes to important times. I've gone on so many first dates. I just wish someone would confirm all my efforts have been for something. But I just keep failing.
>live in a boring area where nothing happens unless you travel like 50km
>video games bored me
>anime is losing its charm
I have absolutely nothing to do during weekends, and i am too dumb and have no will to learn anything new.
> Girl aquintances from another city visiting where I live, asked if I'd go out with them.
> Friends from highschool gonna have a party night and asked if I'd go too.
> Sister went out with her friends and said I'm welcome to join.
> Best bro asked I'm free for a gaming night.
DENIED all of them.
Instead I'm in my flat, listening to NIN, feeling depressed and playing Driveclub.
So .. 8 I guess.
Go geocaching? You could bump into other geocachers. Maybe play AR games like Ingress? Just cruise around on a bike? Fruitboot? Walk? Watch satellites? All you need for that is a web browser, a watch, and a compass. That's just some of the stuff you can do alone outside without spending money.
> Friday night
> No friends
> No family
> Live alone in apartment
I'm... Yeah, I guess I'm kind of lonely. Being alone so long has basically brain damaged me and I don't know what to think or feel. But I know that I'm lonely.
0. I have no one and I need no one but my guinea pig. Pig related.
a cat would legit help with my loneliness, but i don't wan to admit defeat. if i got a cat i would just take care of it obsessively instead of myself and my (no) life that i need to fix
>at university, living in flat with 4 other people
>two other guys, two grills
>we're supposed to be having a party for bonfire night
>i'm not invited
They were so nice to me before this. The day of the party one of the girls smiled and said hello when we passed each other on the way to class.
Now they've gone home for the weekend. Going to smoke weed and do acid, maybe buy some nitrous. Maybe a good drug binge will make me forget.
10/10 loneliness right now man :(
>don't have a single friend, because crippling social anxiety
>all skype friends left me
>haven't left room in 76 hours
I have actually 5 friends who have stuck with me after all these years despite me being a complete failure at 26 and them pretty successful and I'm in good terms with my family better actually. However, still a HKV so I guess 4/10
probably a 7 right now...parents and 2 dogs and a job help
have certainly plumbed the depths of 8 and 9 before though
10 for me sounds like it should be reserved for those whose family have all died and also have no friends
>going to waste it playing vidya again
>favorite game is dying
>no one gets online anymore
>cant enjoy game
>friends are out drinking
>they drunk typing on whatsapp
>alone browsing a chinese fishing imageboard
>last time i went out was 1 year ago
6/10 i guess
>drinking alone in front of the computer
>work is the only time I'm even reasonably okay because it distracts me from my life
>browsing /r9k/ and drinking
>don't have the will for suicide
>don't have the will to live
>checks online dating profile
>qt I fucked up with's profile is on the sidebar
>sees his profile
>he moved about five minutes away from me compared to thirty a few months ago
I fucked up because he kept viewing my profile multiple times a day but not responding to my messages, so I unfavorited him and I guess he noticed. He just ignored my messages after that. Now he put under his preferences that he wants Christian girls only and I'm Catholic
>Talk to two people on a daily basis for years
>One graduated college and is too busy to talk
>The other stopped talking to me out of the blue
I'm not sure what I did wrong. I still have one more friend, but after that I'd be fucked.
> not hanging out because I only have one friend and it's very shallow because she is a vegetarian looking to convert people, though she is quite sweet
> got swerved by my beta oneitis because he probably thought it was a trap/suspicious of my sudden interest
> no bf, KV forever
> hate everyone and everything now
> becoming the fall guy at work because I'm assuming I fucked up, even when I didn't, so everyone is just following my lead
> have recently started drinking every night because fuck it
> just a miserable chubby fuck
> mom keked me developmentally so I don't know how to interact beyond pretending to care and kissing ass
rate me my friend
The only people I interact with are my parents, and its by necessity only. I have no friends; but more importantly (for me), my internet bf left me in February, and I've never recovered from that. Nowadays, I don't talk with anyone.
To be honest, I wouldn't feel so bad or alone if my ex-bf came back to me. But that's an impossibility. So I just suffer.
I'm a guy
10, No irl friends and last internet friend cut all contact to me. I don't know what to do.
Pretty much the same here at uni except I talk to my family quite often
My flatmates are a bunch of drunk twats and only about half of them are even considerate to me, rest are a bunch of loud cunts.
I just want to know how one makes friends intentionally from acquaintances instead of just sticking with stupid social conventions? Would saying to someone "I'd like to hang out with you some other time, would you consider inviting me out?" be plain autistic or perfectly normal?
i'm 100% alone
but i don't think i'm lonely
i do things that are reminiscent of a very lonely person
but i prefer being alone and i don't relate to anybody else and see no problem with that
might just be schizoid
I'm alone, but I'm not sure if I'm lonely. Its possibly that I'm legitimately not lonely, but part of me worries that after all these years I've convinced myself that I'm not lonely even though I am.
Loneliness is completely subjective.
Somebody may feel lonely if they only have 3 or 4 friends, on the other hand somebody may feel incredibly happy to have just 1 or 2.
If you truly feel like you're not lonely then maybe you don't mind at all.
Volunteering at a fly-in, I'll be marshalling planes and "networking" with pilots
I'll chat with and laugh with people whom I don't even remember the names of, go home and lay in bed alone with no gf.