who else /desperatelywantsfriends/ here?
>be lonely,friendless ginger
>tfw want to make a friend
>knows he has the same interests as i do
>cant bother to ask him to play video games with me
what hurts more,lonliness or the chance of rejection?
look for any obvious vidya logo on his possessions or if it's really obvious from a casual glance at his screen. say hey you play that? i do too.
or lead with any obvious big franchise game coming out like COD or fallout
>yelling at other races to hide insecurities
>propping up the delusion that an aimless, friendless shutin lifestyle is preferable
There's always a few favorite topics
how do i make friends as a robot ,anon
i dont want to live this lie that im okay being alone
>drop the normie/robot dichotomy; toxic and cripples your chances at a healthy social life
>leave 4chan and other various escape mechanisms (eg: vidya, excess media consumption) and hugboxes
>identify what interests you in life, find people with common interests
>practice socializing, stepwise, even if it's uncomfortable or doesn't seem like it's working
worked for me.
>what hurts more,lonliness or the chance of rejection?
The chance of rejection.
It's fucking awful.
every time somebody says motivating shit like >>24064211 another anon brings up a point like this and it makes me wonder if i'm holding myself back or i'm truly lost to a world i can't escape from
do you want to look back on your life and remember nothing but night after night spent in front a computer screen? if not, turn it off and do something in the real world right now.
i feel like im gonna pass out when i talk to girls
i'm literally fine with talking to anybody else about anything, even girls i know by association, but talking to girls i dont know randomly makes me feel faint
how do i fix it
just know that they're not special, despite their looks. they all want the same thing, which is chad. once you see them for the soulless whores that they are, you will be more disgusted than scared by them.
>can converse and make people laugh easily
>repel any and all platonic relationships
>meet a really cool guy to hang out with
>start going over to his house every thursday, hit if off
>smoke weed with them
>laughed at everything while they just looked at me like i was retarded
I hate that I always have to start the conversation with them. it makes me feel like im talking to someone who doesnt want to talk to me. i hope i didnt fuck anything up with them :/
Good luck man. It's a good idea to be more focused on how you're improving rather than what immediate results you have at the time. Sometimes life improvement takes a while to set in, and it can feel discouraging.
>never had any actual friends
>only gray useless people who i had not a care in the world for
>am a friend collector on steam
>don't talk to any of them
>post a screenshot
>3 likes at most
Feels bad man. I've been thinking of deleting them all and remaking my account with a fresh url and name and everything