Breaking up with my girlfriend, writing a pro's/con's list after the fact to keep a level head.
I don't want this but also I do. I dunno. Make fun of me or something guys.
part 2. Cause the negatives outweigh the positives I think
You can more than likely find a lot of those good feels with any other chick. Don't let yourself think otherwise.
If she cheat on you, then leave. Seriously, it should have been over then and there.
>cheated on me (once)
>DOESNT WANT KIDS
>WOULD NOT TAKE MY LAST NAME
>Makes me cry a fair bit
Holy shit dude. You need to man up and dump the bitch. You should've done this as soon as you heard she cheated.
I felt like at one point she "got" me, which is a rare thing for me to come by (e.g. we were both undesirables in high school), that and those first few dates at the start were REALLY good, like movie quality. So that's why I stayed the course.
I'll be the caring robot even though no one has ever shown me a shred of compassion in my entire fucking life. I'm sure what you're going through is hell. Despite all the bad the idea of losing companionship, be it good or bad with someone you've shared SO MUCH with is still incredibly hard to look beyond. I can't offer you advice or even suggest whether you should end it or not. I'm sorry you're going through this hell. As someone who knows nothing but betrayal by every person I've ever had the displeasure of linving on this planet with, I genuinely in some sense feel your pain. It's tough, and the thought of her moving on so quickly after you is even more fucking disturbing... The thought of her in another guys bed within a week.. Jesus fuck. Best of luck to you anon. I hope you figure this all out for the best. You have my sympathies.
Dump her but keep some kind of contact with her so you can watch her balloon even more over the next 12 months. Post her progress pics on /fit/. Maybe incorporate some semi-obscure Moby Dick quotes into your break-up.