Managed to break the spell and start a relationship with a girl and lose my virginity. I'm a little older and I know this feat is not at all remarkable in any way but I'll answer questions and give advice on how I did it.
how old are you, how did you meet this girl, did she know you were a virgin before hand, if so how did she react. also, prior to this girl, what's the furthest you had ever gone with a girl and at what age did it happen
Yeah I suppose I am. I still feel like I'm an alien walking among humans though. Sex doesn't magically solve all your problems though. I know that's like telling a starving person that food is just okay, but the point is that if you feel like a robot now you'll probably feel like one still even if you get sex.
>how old are you
>how did you meet this girl
>did she know you were a virgin before hand
yes, I told her after a couple dates
>if so how did she react
she was fine with it. a little surprised, but eager to help me out
>what's the furthest you had ever gone with a girl and at what age did it happen
making out, sucked on tits, fingered one girl, got my dick jerked around but didn't cum. all by 21.
>making out, sucked on tits, fingered one girl, got my dick jerked around but didn't cum. all by 21.
not impressive at all then you were just a late bloomer normie. try being a 21 year old kissless virgin and then come talk to me
fuck you for getting our hopes up
also some additional advice... i was extremely anxious about kissing a girl for the first time, i was terrified i was going to be bad at it. i ended up finding another straight guy on craigslist who was down to practice kissing together. it's really helped a lot to placate any fears i have about kissing a girl for the first time if/when it eventually happens
laugh all you want but at least i wont embarrass myself the first time i kiss a girl. girls absolutely hate inexperienced men so if you are a bad kisser they are going to immediately dismiss you. kissing is only sexual if you make it sexual. there's nothing inherently gay about two straight guys practicing kissing on each other.
Yes I agree with you. Girls also don't like getting fucked by guys that are unskilled, which is why you should practice with a fellow straight man. Putting your cock in a man's ass is only sexual if you make it sexual. You can imagine it as more of a practice type thing, or if you want even a medical experiment. Just imagine you're checking his prostate.
>laugh all you want but at least i wont embarrass myself the first time
Wouldn't care and neither should a women.
>girls absolutely hate inexperienced men
Not my problem
>if you are a bad kisser they are going to immediately dismiss you.
Their loss feels good to not go with society rules.
obviously the act itself is a gay one but you can perform a gay act without being gay
i have a fleshlight for that. but even if i did practice with another straight dude that wouldn't make me gay either. i just wouldn't enjoy it, the same way i don't enjoy kissing the guy. i do it because i have to if i want a shot at getting a gf for myself
>Finding a girl on Tinder who actually expects to go on real dates and not get booty blasted by Chad after Netflix n chill.
Forget your virginity, anon, this is what really demands explanation here.
A fleshlight is one thing, but it's different when it's a real warm moving human being. You'll find out with your straight friend. Or at least talk him into giving you a blowie so that you don't cum straight away when a girl does for the first time, or at the very least a hand job. Otherwise you'll really embarrass yourself with a girl.
The guy who practices kissing with another straight guy isn't OP.
you really want me to be gay for some reason, i'm guessing you're just mad that im going to be good at kissing when i finally kiss a girl and you are going to remain kissless partly because of the anxiety you feel about never having done it before
>identify as gay
holy shit I want to suck dicks
>identify as straight
I can kiss fellow straight guys as practice and it isn't necessarily gay because I get no enjoyment out of it.
sorry man i'm me and that's all i can be. i'm straight no matter how badly it pains you. and considering your fixation on this subject it sounds like you might need to do some reflection on your own sexuality.
I kissed a girl for the first time a couple of months and didn't have any trouble. It didn't feel awkward for me either.. Didn't have to practice with anyone either. You sure you not gay?