>"I'm interested in a hack to keep the porn but have a better sex life. "
I'm in need of a life hack:
Here's my story:
I'm a porn addict, fapping and training fapping since 12. I can fap and ejaculate 50-90 times in a 24 hour window and have done, but average at 5x a day.
This is great and with my work/life (Cognitive Neuroscientist) I'm maxed out cumming in my free time...but here is where I need the hack.
Usually I don't care about women, but i've recently been dating one woman and having sex 15-20x a week depending on free time, and am looking to take on more sexual partners concurrently.
I theorize that the porn and fapping is numbing my libido and interfering with my current and potential sex life, but the porn is so good and the fapping is efficient and often better than sex.
I'm interested in a hack to keep the porn but have a better sex life.
I will be here for a few hours to answer any questions
Well. The initial thought is consumption of dopamine precursors (L-DOPA, perhaps via mucuna pruriens). Normally after orgasm prolactin levels rise and drive it down. Prolactin is involved in a sensation of sexual satisfaction, elevated levels reduce libido, and problematically, levels that are too low have been shown to result in a reduction of sex drive, So the only viable way to approach it from that angle is some way to only modulate hormonal and neurotransmitter regulatory factors, something that is unknown to me and probably not even readily possible.
The other option is to approach it psychologically. A thing where advice can't really be meaningfully communicated.
>the fapping is better than sex
Congratulations, you are ahead of your time. Enjoy not getting tricked into marriage.
If masturbatingis better than sex, it means that the women have to step up their game, that's all.
>5x a day regularely
>up to 90x a day
I don't believe you simply because of the amount of physical trauma that would inflict on your penis. If I fuck or jack off even just 3 or 4 times a day the head of my penis chafes.
if i was going for a maxout, i'd not sleep for the 24-36h,
I mean even receiving fellatio is sometimes worse than watching a 1080p/4k video of some other guy doing a closeup BJ scene.
I think many other guys have realized this since many women seem pretty anti porn, and really rage if their boyfriend/husband is watching it.
you mean in the absence of a hard biological solution, I ought to employ some sort of psychological libido modulation?
>head of the penis chaffs
Were you the victim of genital mutilation as a child (Circumcision)?
I don't even need lube to casually hit 20 after work, nor alcohol/cannabis etc
With caffeine and a 5-8 hours 30-50 is easy too.
There is no trauma, toward the higher numbers its easier to ejaculate, and more uncontrollable. I can still cum at maybe 1-2minutes in past 20-30, but the first 10 or so usually take 5-10mins. Refractory period lowers too, and I can accelerate that with alcohol and caffeine
I can prove that OP is talking complete bullshit.
OP states that he has a girlfriend and is a Neuroscientist.
He is looking for a way to take part in more sexual activity/have mor "libido".
OP claims to be a Neuroscientist but calls this a HACK.
Only a CS would call something like this a hack and as you guys know very well CS's don't have gfs.
>ejaculate 90 times a day
>you mean in the absence of a hard biological solution, I ought to employ some sort of psychological libido modulation?
Right. To me, it sounds like if you're actually telling the truth, you tend towards just rushing towards orgasm as quickly as possible. Your technique, routine, or whatever it could be called, likely clusters around maximizing stimulation on the more sensitive regions.
Now, without getting all metacognitive and abstract about how to delve the depths of your mind and do deep architectural work on the way your psyche processes and responds to stimuli, it could be as simple as making your masturbation sessions longer. With a focus on total pleasure and sexual satisfaction, rather than simply an orgasm.
As someone who's "uncut", this part of your post
>Were you the victim of genital mutilation as a child (Circumcision)?
leads me to believe the above assumptions are probably true. Longer masturbation sessions tend to put more mechanical stress of the penis as a whole, which can cause the internal structures to become sore anyway. The habit of focusing only on orgasm is probably what's causing your issues.
I never thought I'd be on an anonymous message board telling another human being how and why they should alter their masturbatory habits.
I don't know how you can still have sex with that masturbation schedule. I jack off once in the morning and have difficulties remaining hard for a woman that night. In my last relationship it was a problem where I'd regularly last too long. You're either lying or leagues beyond the average male in libido.
I probably have high testosterone, but I'm also the "engineering" personality type, in that I'm constantly improving/modifying for efficiency. I've essentially been perfecting fapping sessions for the past 10-14 years.
I rarely fap in mornings unless its a weekend, because otherwise I will stay in bed fapping all day. Try having sex first, once or twice, maybe 3-5 times if you're feeling good, then afterward fap, and start small on low quality static images, escalate to better quality and more aggressive porn. No distractions, dim the lights, lock doors, phone face down, focus on the porn and use your imagination.
Ah and during sex, maintain a constant penis/vaginal wall friction, then adjust slightly to vary the points of maximal stimulation. Focus on ejaculating in the woman, and keep that thought.Positive affirmations like "i'm going to fuck this bitch" may be of use too, and if you find yourself drifting or getting bored draw your attention away to something else quickly, then come back.
I think I tend toward maximising pleasure, and the repeated ejaculations come as a consequence. often they are uncontrollable.
Longer sessions would seem to me to reduce my total pleasure/orgasms and quality of actual sex life.
My work is in that field,
and 90 or so is my record though I may have hit 100, I will happily do it on video for proof/record if someone pays me enough
my dad was a CS, and I've hacked in the past
>pay you to masturbate 100 times on camera
you're full of shit. there's no way that your testosterone is so high that you're capable of masturbating 100 times in 24 hours. i lift 4 days a week, sleep 8-9 hours a night, and eat a healthy and varied diet, so it's safe to assume that my testosterone levels are at least average, and my record for masturbation is 5 times in a day. i could probably push it to 10 if i tried. the notion that you could masturbate 100 times a day is retarded
I used to do this hardcore workout routine...for 5 years and 6-7 days a week, It didn't really help my fapping except after a long swimming session I had lowered refractory.
>8-9 i'm pulling 4-5 at the moment and its reduced quality because of my alchol and caffeine intake.
My diet is mostly meat 75%, alcohol and fat. I probably have a slight genetic testosterone advantage, but this is only one factor. My porn training/fapping is probably the likely variable factor.
>100 a day
I never said this, I said 50-90 would be if I were going during a 24h period doing nothing but fapping/ brief breaks and looking for new porn.
only 5 is pathetic, I'm on 12 so far and I finished work about 4 hours ago, I will keep going until midnight, then sleep, then work, then sex with gf 4-5 times then try to get this new girl naked that i'm talking to.
How much would you pay me to fap 100 times in 24 hours? should I try and crowd fund it?
>since many women seem pretty anti porn, and really rage if their boyfriend/husband is watching it.
when you hear "a guy has to perform" or "he couldn't get it up", don't forget to translate it into "she's not sexy enough/trying hard enough for it to bother getting up".
50 years of neuroscience has showed some pretty strong links between testosterone and libido/aggression.
testosterone natally also makes the masculine man, the jaw line/ waist hip ratio, deep voice, beast like facial features, facial/body hair, darkening of the skin and some role in height too.
test is really the male androgen, oestrogen the female
he said that maybe he was capable of ejaculating 100 times in 24 hours because of his high testosterone. i was saying that my testosterone levels are at least average and i would be able to get a tenth of that