Can we please get an insecurity thread going?
I just need to wind off somewhere it's too much for my little heart to carry. Also other people feeling bad can do the same.
>pic related is me,19yo,girl,5"3...
>i always wanted to be cute in a kawaiidesoo tiny loli way
>i'm trying to grow out my hair, take care of my skin,...
>i feel too tall,too big,too old
>i just want to look smaller,cuter,younger,cuter,..
>i feel like crying because no matter how hard i try i feel like i'm shit and will never be cute like all the girls i see doing kawaii shit
>body dysmorphia is coming back lately and i feel absolutely terrible
>tl;dr i just want to be a cute tiny girl (and be the precious little baby of someone.)
If that's you in ur pic I think you already posses the facial features that are considered very fm wine and cute. Just because you are not super petite like the girls you're talking about, doesn't make you any less cuter. Keep growing out your hair and trust me, you def have the potential to pull of the look.
But that's just it, you are extremely cute as is. Don't try to be what others are because you're fine the way you are. Now me on the other hand, I look like a caveman from the geico commercials.
Yeaah i should.
Once a weeb friend of mine dressed me up in kindergarten clothing haha. I look SO disgruntled (was the end of a long day so i probably was really tired and tend to be grumpy when tired) but inside i actually liked it even though it was childish and "weird".
Should i do anything to look more cute and younger?
Aw. I'm like 5"3 so that's on the small/average side but sometimes i don't know i just feel so big in this world, i wish i was so small i could crawl in a hole sometimes. Back in high school, my 6"2 tall friend would put me in his locker for giggles
How small do you want to be? your already small enough. you look really good you don't need to change anything
That's really sweet anon,on this pic i'm at my worst i guess (i look tired too,i barely sleep because i spend nights crying and looking in the mirror haha i'm a mess at the moment but trying to get better). So wow. didn't see that kind of thing coming.
Salut ; - ; Je suis pas vraiment bi en fait?.
T'es adorable. Je me sens vraiment horriblement mal ces temps ci et comme j'ai personne j'ai ouvert une insecurity thread parce que pourquoi pas? Et comme ça je pouvais retirer ça de moi.
Débarquement de français !
Tu as l'air mignonne, il manque juste un sourire !
Je ne pense pas qu'ouvrir un thread ici puisse vraiment aider, après je dois surement me tromper.
Au final une bonne discussion bien deep fait toujours du bien .
Ah bah j'en sais rien moi t'avais posté chez les filles bi/lesb alors je me suis dit que tu l'étais !
Mais je comprends, si tu veux parler un peu on peux toujours, je suis gentil de nature (et c'est même pas moi qui le dit mais une amie !) alors si ta besoin de te sentir un peu mieux... Demande !
J'aimerais trop pouvoir te cuddle jusqu'au bout de la nuit t'as l'air d'être un vrai bébé trop mignon j'adore !
Mais bon, je t'envoie un mental hug à la place :p
Je crois parfois que je souffre du syndrome de Peter Pan. J'aimerais avoir un corps et un visage d'enfant. Et vieillir ou même ressembler à une "jeune fille" ça me met mal..Je suis vraaaiment pas bien dans ma tête. Je sais pas vraiment sourire tellement je vais mal, je souris à peine en fait et jamais en photo. La joie de vivre ultime.
(translating, i just said i think i miiight have a peter pan syndrome, idk, i just wanna look like a child body wise and face wise when i think about it. Also about my smile i rarely ever smile tbh, feeling terrible so i smile even less, i try but it's hurting my cheeks and nothing else, yes i'm a very joyful person)
you need to stop worrying about other people and how they look like or want to be them if you be yourself and like who you are the more people are going to like you and the more your going to like yourself if your not happy with yourself you will never be happy in life just be you and don't worry about other. my name is Jordan by the way
Et moi je crois que je dois souffrir un peu du complexe du sauveur ;_;
J'ai BESOINS qu'on ai besoin de moi, c'est pour ça que le côté ptite fille ultra needy ca me plairait à fond !
Moi même j'ai un peu du mal a vieillir mais ça ne me met pas aussi mal que toi.
Encore niveau taille tu n'es pas bien grande je trouve ça mignon, tu as l'air d'avoir une jolie peau toute pâle. il manque plus que l'air enfantin quand on te regarde dans les yeux !
Un conseil si je peux me permettre mais ça se ressent tout de suite dans les photos ton malaise a travers ton regard, la façon dont tu te tiens, commence par travailler sur ça peut-être ? Se sentir bien dans sa peau est un premier pas pour se sentir mieux dans sa tête
Haha moi je le cache à mort mais j'ai besoin d'ENORMEMENT d'attention,j'ai besoin très souvent d'être rassurée,qu'on me donne un sentiment safe,que on me dise que tout ira bien,que on me laissera pas. On m'a déjà laissée tellement de fois en fait je fais très difficilement confiance et je "mords" pas mal, je parais aggressive,hostile et tout mais au fond je suis un genre de boule d'émotions qui pleure avec son doudou la nuit et qui a besoin de câlins.
Je suis très virile.
>piggish nose after rhinoplasty (an improvement but not much)
>jowls stating to come in
>basically ugly as fuck
>huge eye bags
>hair thinned out because sick
kill me this is suffering
Oh my god.
Et je suis typiquement le genre de type qui rassure, qui donne énormément d'affection car je veux voir l'autre heureuse (avant meme ma personne) stable, rassurant et tout... Je te need.
Putain trop de français. J'espère au moins qu'un de vous est québécois.
I apologize on all the french invasion here tho, keep on ranting i'm listening.
En fait je parle français mais je suis de Belgique.
Le Quebec c'est bien, j'aimerais y aller un jour!!
Awe...well right now i'm shaking a bit bc cold and cried like a child. Ha ha. But i can handle things pretty well i was bullied for 5years at school bring it on!!
Le dernier type à qui j'ai donné ma confiance (il me rassurait toujours,on parlait de trucs de kikoujap ensemble,...) c'est averé être un psychopathe pédophile. Je me suis barrée.
Après 3ans. Je suis plus attirée par les filles en fait mais y'en a jamais...; _ ; Je veux juste quelqu'un comme ça dans ma vie pour avoir quelque chose de stable dans ce monde instable. Pourquoi la vie.
Eh? Don't i look too old and weird?
My nose (pic related) and my total inability to gain any muscle
This is you right? You're already really petite at your height, 19 is young and virgin is a major plus, ffs anyone on this website would wife you in an instant.
Plus sérieusement en fait je sais pas je me sens trop "grande"? J'aimerais être une petite chose toute mignonne parfois et même que je fais 162cm et que souvent on me prends pour un peu plus jeune j'aimerais juste être encore plus petite que ça. Je suis pas normale. Mais faire "mature" comme les filles de mon âge qui se maquillent,mettent des talons,des vêtements "femmes" je hais ça et je veux pas.
Puis je rentre dans des trucs rayon enfant encore donc je profite parfois ils ont des trucs jolis. Moi aussi je veux un petit lapin sur mes bottes d'hiver.
Exactement ce que >>22571939 disait, ça devrais te rendre contente.
Sinon trouve un mec grand et bien bâti pour compenser ton manque de petite taille. Les Pays-Bas sont juste à coté ça doit pas manquer de géants.
Well fam I am definitely insecure over the fact I've never gotten anywhere with girls and how average people seem to claim I m
Heyyy you found me there, it was a reaally lucky pic of me from a photoshoot. Aw. That made me feel a bit better thanks.
Je peux essayer toujours? Je vais reinstaller kik. Je devrais aller dormir sinon demain je saurai encore pas étudier correctement. Dernière fois que j'ai passé la nuit à chialer devant mon miroir je me suis endormie sur mon syllabus je me suis reveillée avec des marques de surligneur. La grande classe.
Why would you strangle me tho? I know i'm a brat sometimes so that may explain things.
>reading before you fall asleep
Eh, why don't i look very young anyway?
It's kinda depressing to hear.
Oh god i HATE hipster. It's even more depressing.
Meh, je crois que ils craquent sur les filles de genre 16-17ans en général donc pas vraiment pédophiles... Les mec me font peur et ne m'intéressent pas vraiment, je suis souvent assez aggressive et hostiles avec eux parce que je suis mal à l'aise.?
Fuck OP tbh ever since you posted the month before I thought you were cute as fuck and didn't even try to contact because I'm sure you don't want to risk talking to some fucking stalking weirdo(I'm not but there's a shit ton on here). I liked the picture you're in a jacket and kind of twirling your hair. I wish I could hug and pick you up no bullshit. I dig the black under blonde hair color.
>tfw will never hug and cuddle cute little French speaking insecure princess
Honestly if I was Canadian I'd just tell you to come live with me and be my loli-maid and I'd spank you senseless and cuddle and whatnot. You have nothing to worry about and fit perfectly into what you're trying to go for.
Because you need be quiet sometimes, duh. I could read to you for hours pretty much. It's one of my favorite things an pretty girls deserve privilages sometimes. And sometimes they need lots of pain.
I'm actually pretty quiet in real life, i don't talk much unless i'm talking about something i really like or to someone i like a lot
Oh gosh i need cuddles so bad...I'm just feeling awful tonight like i'm crying since two hours now.
erm, I'm not sure if I'm insecure, but I can't really talk to people without spilling my spaghetti anymore, because I just can't see a point in talking to anybody, since everybody I've known has screwed me over, but now I'm alone and only have friends from Kik threads, in different countries now
you're kawaii as fuck and the cutest fucking weeb I've ever seen, I'm sorry you're insecure, you're a real beautiful person, if I must say so myself
and I'm from the UK, I'm supposed to hate French people apparently
I think i'm looking old bc of how tired and sad i am lately, i think that might be it, it doesn't make you all radiant and youthful.
I'm from Belgium, i love the UK i dream to go there once. You're adorable thanks, made me a bit less of a sobbing mess. Wow i swear tonight i beat my crybaby record. When i'm alone i let it all out actually.
adding you once i installed kik, sorry to bother
honestly though you don't really look old or tired or anything, you're sweet as shit for your emotional side though, it's like a breath of fresh air
you're very lovely
(also I'd love to get your kik as well, to talk and stuff whenever, if you don't mind I guess)
I'm just some girl that wish to look like 14 i'm not mentally sane probably like the thought of being called adult/madam and being told i look my age or older just litterally makes me wanna cry
you look pretty damn young in the OP, but I bet you would look even cuter in short sleeved tops
I don't know what makes me think that, but I think that's what makes you look so adorable in the photoshoot pic
i would say about some months ago because of a "lolicon" guy and i felt "pressured" somehow? Not like "muh oppression" or anything but i pressured myself hard to be cuter and cuter and younger and it stayed.
I installed it, i'm login in anon i'm ok i stopped crying at least still shaking a bit you sound so sweet i'll talk to you...
Ok now that was way too cute.
Your paws are absolutely beautiful Mr. Flufflepaws.
well I hope you add me on Kik, once you've made one
best take a not of mine
I try not to tell people they have nothing to worry about, because nobody who gets told that just agrees right there
but yeah, you're an incredibly sweet girl, plus you seem loads younger than me, when we're the same age
Yeah, that's it. I just added that french guy bc he genuinely seemed nice and not like guys trying to score or get nudes or anything. Anyway i can see clear through that usually so...the last one idk but i can give a chance uh?
My eyes stopped raining and the mist has gone away. It'll get better.
But yeah nah i don't want compliments actually nor do i want worshipping, seriously that's not what i am after, like "ooh but you are a perfect young kawaii babyyy" that's nice and all but i don't want that. Just talking and all.
Idk no one, except my therapist since my suicide attempt last year (spoiler: it failed, few pills away, but i'm kinda happy i'm still alive sometimes i mean hey there are anime and games coming out, i would have missed that really cute new animal crossing game too. So i still look forward things.)
I wish yeah, most of the people i had on kik if not all actually were just creepers and once they saw a pic of me they harassed me to get nudes and stuff , also a guy pretending to be a girl to catfish me haha. It was sad but kinda funny.
Soryr i haven't seen >>22571987 before, awe i wish we could, i'm mainly attracted by girls if not totally but inside i still have this tiny soft spot for things like this with guys? It's too weird.
>tfw i'll never have a oniichan to take care of in a tsundere way and be gross weebs with
Don't you find it curious how most depressed people almost always tell you "Yeah, I was at a low place; but I'm doing better now", and you, being the depressed person look back at the moment when you said that and think you weren't doing well at all, but now you are and over and over.
I'd honestly want to hug you in shit regardless if it was sexual or not. I'm content with giving affection . I want an outlet that gives a fuck. If you would OP message me you kik firstname.lastname@example.org lets be real buds.
messaging you and going to sleep, it's 1.21 am here. All this crying and shaking and bawing just made me tired so i'm going to crawl under my blanket,put on a fluffy pajama and going to bed with a stuffed animal
Sometimes I hate everything about myself. My droopy, too-close-together eyes, my pronounced chin, wideset node, big forehead, puffy cheeks and boring skinny boyish frame with awkward short-person proportions. My eyes are blue, but not the good kind of blue.
Honestly, I never believe people who call me pretty. During the day when people "hit on me" or "catcall" I assume they are making fun of me. Any romantic or flirtacious advances are really cruel tricks.
I feel ugly a lot. When I drink, I think I'm cute. When I drug I think I'm a model.
Probably fucked me up because I had a modeling contract when I was 15 but never started and it ended in the worst way ever. Was basically torn apart so his cruel words always overshadow the kind ones.
I fucking despise myself. I probably won't even end up submitting this message because I don't believe in burdening other people with my pathetic and essentially non exists any problems. I have some friends and I can get on reasonably well in social settings but inside I just feel constantly distant. I consider myself to be too ugly to be worth looking at so I won't post a picture on here, and I always assume the most negative outcome in any situation. I used to do well when I was in highschool and I still consider myself somewhat intelligent but I don't have the self confidence to ever believe that I can succeed at anything and I'll downplay any tiny skills that I have. I'm resolved to living a life of boredome and mediocrity, though people tell me I can do better. I think they're only saying it out of sympathy and I don't consider myself to be a special person that could succeed if only they had the motivation, I know that I am shit.
I slept with one of my closest friend's girlfriends after an alcohol fueled night out when I was eighteen, and despite the fact that she was a poisonous bitch and was only with my friend to get closer to another friend, and the relationship was doomed anyway, I still can not forgive myself for it. It was nearly two years ago. My friend has forgiven me but that just makes me hate myself even more, I could never be as good a human as him. The bitch made all the moves and had intended to cheat on him for a while, I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, but that doesn't take away any of the blame. I still betrayed a friend's trust in weakness and virginal desperation. Earlier that night I had promised that friend that I would never do anything to hurt him when he saw his girlfriend flirting with me; the worst bit was that I meant this when I said it so now I can't even trust my own word.
>timid as fuck
>baby face so no one likes me
>a forehead like 6 fingers long
All I've ever wanted is someone give my love to, and hopefully receive some back from, but I know I don't deserve that.
I'll probably kill myself when I've visited a few more of the cities I'd like to see and finished my backlog of books and music.
I'm so skinny and pale my arms literally look like I took them off a child sized mannequin
Your cheeks look fine to me. Unless you meant your ass
I like your pirate eye, it actually makes me more attracted to you
Your nose is big, but not giant. Can always get work done
Grow a beard if you want to look more manly
Get bangs if you want to minimize your forehead
1st time posting but whatever, i have nothing lose.
I'm 23, i look like a kid still, most people say i look like 16-18 years old. I'm way too skinny (107 lbs) i actually now how to act with confident and joke a be social, and most people say that i look like i have a lot of confidence but it's not true. i worry because my nose and lips are too big (at least i think so) and since i look like a skinny kid when i hang out with some of my friends i look out of place, even in college. Also i stopped taking my medications the psychiatrist gave me for depression and schizophrenia because they make me feel like shit. Now i have a lot of weird toughs and depression started to kick in again so i probably look like shit. I make a path with a friend who have some mental problems too, if nothing changes by the time our 30th birthday come, we will off ourselves.
Anyways, thanks for reading if anyone did.
I personally think it's your bleached hair that's making you look older and less cute. Maybe go back to brown or try a cuter color like on the pastel range like some of the jfashion asians do.
You're not very big nor tall. If you went to Japan you'd be able to fit into so many things so cheer up OP.
>baby face make look like im 16 or less
>i get nervous when i talk to new people IRL, but no problem online
>0 facial hair
>dont find myself interesting
I kinda like big eyebrows on girls. I know it's really out or fashion to have thick eyebrows right now judging by how many girls get them done regularly.
Maybe even them out more but I prefer the natural look.
broad, tall forehead is masculine af so long as you have a decent hairline which you do.
Baby face and chubby cheeks should go away with age as long as you dont get fat.
pirate eye lol kinda cool though but I can see how it's offputting to some and probably hinders in eye contact.
every compliment is actually people jeering at me, secretly telling me I am disgusting & I hate having to make eye contact with people.
I know I don't look bad. it's a mental problem. I hate what I see & I wish I saw something else. I've only rarely posted here before, but man do I fucking hate myself.
>clearly skinny body type
I don't see what the problem is, you're definitely cute, attractive, hot, whatever word floats your boat. Hell I'd make you my precious little baby multiple times over.
You don't look so bad, could do with a facial piercing or two or three. I like septum or the bullring ones on faces like that but eyebrow and mouth are nice too.
Hardly unattractive but face reminds me of lenny face.
Lifes weird to people. just gotta deal with stuff. like we all do
I mean, I am very insecure about my looks. But mostly I'm insecure about reality. How many conflicting opinions there are on everything, not even academics have a firm grasp on much. Even those that are confident that they do can be proven to be as wrong as the idea of "humors" somewhere down the line. The worlds so confusing and jumbled, best go to fictional worlds made by authors, game designers, etc where everything makes sense
>Really cute girls with this much insecurity
For fuck sake
You should actually wear an eye patch, they look cool as fuck and you have a reason to wear one
>tfw you don't know if you're insecure about your appearance or if you're genuinely 0/10 and just really self aware
Why could women possibly not like my face in this picture? I legit don't know wtf is wrong. I think this is a good photo but nobody likes it. Srs just what exactly is ugly here?
Men think I look good so it's probably not helpful for male opinions.
Been insecure about my body for as long as I can remember
Yeah I can't see what's bad... But something is off that only women see... Physically speaking... Jawline maybe? Looks weak. Lips aren't very nice. Chin could be better... I can't tell which thing in particular, to me the jawline looks the worst here.
>Please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair please don't touch my hair
It is all I am ever worried about. I get it, it is a focal point and great conversation starter, but the amount of ass-backwards racism, harasment and disrespect I get as a person in any circumstance is too often, obnoxious and ridiculous to the point where I can't even socialize.
No, I'm not cutting it. Just tired of people focusing on it.
I don't know about women on here they probably give me good scores, I'm talking about on Tinder etc, no girls like this picture. There's something ugly dude. Probably jawline weakness.
With great fro, comes great responsibility
On a serious note I think you'd look good with a buzz. Not a super short one, but something around my length or longer and you'd look great
3.5-2 (/soc/ politeness buffer)-1(compliment)=0.5/10 adjusted
anyways i don't see why you're insecure, society is a facade anyways and none of it really matters. and you're above average appearance-wise, as long as you're not a super manlet
I-im okay, right?
No I was giving you the most honest answer, this isn't a rate thread. You'd have to be disfigured, have severe birth defects, over 300LB+, etc to be below a 1
there are disfigured people, people with severe birth defects, and 300+ lbers who have had people find them attractive enough to have sex. thus i am below this level
6' is definitely okay
To the OP, you are definitely one of the youngest looking 19 year olds I've ever seen. It's really cute. I know you don't know me nor I you, but if you ever need ears to listen, my kik is ffaustin. I'm very good at listening.
Well fam at least you aren't am ugly shit like me. I think you're super kawaii
>and be the precious little baby of someone
That's exactly how I feel, only I'm a "straight" male (I'm just not particularly attracted to men, nothing to do with sexuality as I'd gladly date a man)
Mobile always forces pictures to be sideways
I don't have a neck and it's pretty much fucked me harder than anyone can imagine.
What are you talking bout, OP? You're cute as hell.
Thanks to a congenital (from birth) medical condition, I have a bigger head than average (not freakishly huge or disfigured, but my forehead is kinda big)
and my hair as I normally have it
That's another thing. My skin is shit.
I'm pretty fucking sure considering the major surgeries I've had to keep me upright.
Nah V-necks make me look weird as fuck on me too, honestly normal t shirts are my best bet
I agree with
Dude I'm sorry you didn't win the genetic lottery. But to make myself feel okay I think of it like this:
I will never be a 10/10, but I'm not hideously repulsive (just like you aren't, obviously), there is better out there and there is worse. I'm right in the middle and I can be okay with that.
I don't know if that thought will help you at all.
I'm not about to greentext my life problems for your entertainment
Honestly I appreciate it, it's ok. I've accepted, it's hard as fuck though. It really weighs on me what my life could've been and it's tough not to dwell on that. Especially when you see yourself everyday in the mirror.
I have golden hard syndrome, hemifacial microsomnia and scoliosis. They don't know exactly what happned to me tbh. I had multiple back surgeries from the ages 4-6 including spinal fusion, rods placed in my back, then removed, wore a back brace for 4 years.
I don't know anything at all about those.. Conditions? Is that the right word?
But I did a quick google image search and I do wonder.. If it's not too much to answer.. Is yours severe or mild? The facial ones, that is. I'm aware what scoliosis is... :/
My biggest problem tonight is being attracted to two different, dysmorphic, dumb-yet-beautiful girls
First, the brat:
You're a beautiful little - lithe and tiny. You embrace your cute - but then don't see your 'weird' as a good thing.
Couldn't read much of the frenchie, but hey - you're q-tay - no need to shame yourself, you’re kawaii as hell.
And then there's the bimbo:
Who doesn’t believe in kindness - so maybe you need a good wake-up call - rough sex probably. Get drunk and feel your model and get over that stupid cunt.
Also, I get depression too - therapy is def a good call, imo. Maybe then you can see yourself the way anon does.
Anyway, that's what brought me here - to write to two hot mess women that I'd get with in a minute.
Because that's my insecurity. Romance, alcohol, and writing.
>picture not related
>made fun of through every grade, school, job
>21 year old virgin
>can't lift left arm in the air past shoulder length
>can't wear collered shirts
>never been able to wear a suit/tie
>can't play football/contact sports
>spent years in and out of hospitals
>people are afraid to approach me
Honestly I could go on forever.
The scoliosis is very major, the golden hars and hemifacial microsomnia is very mild.
I don't have back pain anymore since they fused my spine, the scoliosis doesn't really affect me that much in day to day life besides the fact that I look like I am constantly leaning to the right in pictures. I worked my ass off when I was younger and have very strong legs to make up for my shitty upper body so I do ok in the everyday life. Honestly I don't feel pain from these issues hardly ever. Just made me very emotionless and depressed.
Yeah man I can't imagine. This is a shamefully and needlessly cruel and unaccepting world we live in,based usually entirely on things we were born with. If only we could just value unique human life its self and not exclusively normalcy. I'm really sorry for it all, but what can I say. It's just life, and this is the form your existence apparently took
It's okay honestly, I know there isn't anything anyone can do, I just push through. It has benefited me in some ways as well. >>22580358
I appreciate it, like i said I just keep pushing through. I have a loving family and some good friends.
I never turn down a beer that's for sure, nice talking to you guys. Don't let me depress the fuck out of yall, sometimes it's nice to complain to internet strangers cause no one knows how much this actually affects me, I play it off really cool in real life. Well I have to go to bed, have an 9am class tomorrow!
You're not depressing in the least, and I hope you're feeling a bit better now. 'Cause you are handsome, I'll say that much.
Have a great day tomorrow man.
And good job for already doing more with your life than I am. kek
I dont see anything wrong with you. I think youre one of the prettiest girls in the world and id go on a date with you in a heart beat. I think your short hair is cute. You have a drop dead gorgeous face and body. If youre in wa id like to have lunch with you.
Girls don't want to tell anybody they're special, they want to be told they're special. Part of unconscious gender roles tbh. Or perhaps that goes as deep as biology, how animals choose mates. You're easily an objective 7 though, subjective range probably 6.5-8.5. Just because girls aren't telling you you're attractive doesn't mean you aren't
Ok Im a male:
>only 7-8/10 looks
> white skin, girls want dark/black
>i dont like my hair
>My dick is small 6.5"x5"
>my skin doesnt look like porcelain. I actually tried to achieve it but skin got irritated and broke out
>my teeth arent white and perfect
> Im kind of hairy
> I want to have the body that is unattainable naturally
> I feel im not smart enough, so i feel like i have to out shine everyone at university. I kill myself on course load and enjoy showing off how good i am at math so people think im smart.
>I feel like I might a Phd, just to prove to people how smart I am, even though it doesnt make much sense for me career wise.
I have BDD and general low self esteem. When people compliment me on my intelligence i just say oh im not that smart anyone could do that.
I should add, this feeling of low self esteem and BDD, forced me to only leave my house for work ,school, and gym. If im not studying, im working,or at the gym. My goal is perfection mentally and physically and thats not possible to achieve, so i never feel good enough for anyone.
>4/10 ugly, looks like an autist
>severe social anxiety and avoidant personality
>cant really talk to people casually
>not overweight but looks fat
>cutting scars all over body
>awful looking hair
>stupid, probably the dumbest person I know
>cant make friends, complete loner
>ugly personality, horrible to be around
>lazy eye and horrible facial structure
>normal face looks mad
>fucked up spine
>eyes always look intense and weird
>cant even make eye contact anymore
>extremely lazy, no motivation
>body shape is ugly and looks like an old man's
>never been on a date or really had any sort of emotional or physical intimacy
>multiple suicide attempts in HS
>severe depression, antidepressants/therapy didnt help much
>ugly hands and feet
>never done anything I can be proud of with my life
>didnt get into any of my top 3 colleges
>pretty much an awful mistake of a person
>despite all this parents still tolerate me
I am tired of existing like this, I just want to die.
i don't like my nose or my shoulders lately zzzzz
Fellow female here, I feel all those feels but like you really are pretty cute dollish/baby like. Like in a Elf-ish kind of way. Idk you really are cute. I know what BDD is like and stuff. But for real its tragic as hell that you don't know it. And like as I say this I think of how many people have told ME that and I never believed them so you prob wont believe me. I have like no reason to want to get in your pants, and I don't care to post my own pic so I don't want compliments in return. I just truly think you are cute and like shit. BDD is like this horrible accumulation of depression feels. It's terrible. It has nothing to do with actual looks or reality though.
>Honestly, I never believe people who call me pretty. During the day when people "hit on me" or "catcall" I assume they are making fun of me. Any romantic or flirtacious advances are really cruel tricks.
>I feel ugly a lot. When I drink, I think I'm cute. When I drug I think I'm a model.
Kind of relate to this but like it wildly depends sometimes I feel MORE ugly when I drink and drug.
>I fucking despise myself. I probably won't even end up submitting this message because I don't believe in burdening other people with my pathetic and essentially non exists any problems. I have some friends and I can get on reasonably well in social settings but inside I just feel constantly distant. I consider myself to be too ugly to be worth looking at so I won't post a picture on here, and I always assume the most negative outcome in any situation. I used to do well when I was in highschool and I still consider myself somewhat intelligent but I don't have the self confidence to ever believe that I can succeed at anything and I'll downplay any tiny skills that I have. I'm resolved to living a life of boredome and mediocrity, though people tell me I can do better. I think they're only saying it out of sympathy and I don't consider myself to be a special person that could succeed if only they had the motivation, I know that I am shit.
I feel all of these feels completely.
The pirate eye is rather striking at first, but if you had a chill personality for the most part it would be kind of neat actually. I have like a really weird fascination/affinity for small flaws like that. The rest of you isn't really ugly in any way. Baby faces are a good thing imo, though I hate my own. Timid is hot too.
Tiny eyes and my hair is dry
nothing special about my looks
Poor thing. You don't look unusual in any way. You look normal.
I personally find this look adorable...
You look stunning, I don't even know why you are in this thread.
I had two friends who had this and it like never really bothered people at all it even took them a while to notice it.
i cant tell or girls look at me because theyre attracted to me, or if it's because they think I look like a bizarre lunatic.
I don't know if I have delusions of grandeur, or inferiority.
Any clarification is welcome, I have very thick skin, I just want to act appropriately.
>Aw. I'm like 5"3
>i just feel so big in this world,
>i wish i was so small i could crawl in a hole sometimes.
Try spending a month on /fit/, if you haven't killed yourself for being so short by then it should sort you out
Insecure about my weight and hair
Basically starving myself to lose weight and no matter what I still feel fat. I keep seeing skinnier girls and it just infuriates me
Back in highschool I was an emotional mess because I had uncontrolled anxiety which led me to do the stupid thing of cutting up my arm. I'm trying to save money for plastic surgery as its been years and I'm 100% over it. I just look bad on it with so much regret and I still have issues going places in t-shirts. I just, I'm so angry at myself because the person I am now would never do it. And I know people judge me. Its just aggrivating...since its not who I am.
Only picture I had that showed it is pretty low quality so bare with me.
Nah I don't. I was standing on my toes and leaning forward. This is what my legs look like normally
Short fat legs
If I don't wear makeup people are like
>Hey anon, why don't you wear any makeup? You're super cute, you should wear a little XYZ and fancy it up a bit!
But when I do wear makeup I feel like I look like a drag queen. I don't even wear a lot - BB cream, eyeliner, mascara. But it's so fucking jarring and makes me feel too tarted up.
It doesn't leave its just under proper control now where I dont use that method to calm down (which is why I said uncontrollable anxiety)
Self harm is a result of a mental illness not a mental illness itself
>have a terrible smile
>am basically a butter face
If I could wear a bag over my head, I would.
you are defiantly someone id hang with. you look fun , someone anyone could relate to. in my opinion you arnt a super model. but you defiantly arnt ugly.
please stop fishing for compliments. your gorgeous ...i mean..uterly stunning, you have to body that would turn heads in the street even though your fully clothed. i for one would srsly give anything to taste that peach between your legs. no adjustments needed. your welcome
>please stop fishing for compliments
I don't really think that is what is going on, a lot of women (and men) just had terrible self image. Half the time who you see when you look in the mirror isn't at all what you actually look like. I know super hot girls who genuinely had shit self worth and super average girls who are confident through the roof.
Generally when you want to lay on the nice telling her she'll turn heads and stuff you don't start off with a jab like fishing for compliments, negging is lame.
Im insecure about not being white thin and beautiful
>5'3, tan skin, i forgot my weight but im thick/borderine chubby
>every guy I go out with eventually starts liking a conventionally attractive white girl
>sometimes during relationships they ask me to basically change for them
>tfw they just want a white girl and got tired of me
I dont think im bad looking I just think I'm never good enough
I just want to be good enough the way I am
You've been dating really shitty guys. There are plenty of people that think you're like the epitome of sexiness. May be harder to find one, but please don't think you've gotta change to find love. You should change for you and you alone.
As a naturally tanned guy I have to tell you you should be proud of that golden brown skin. I am and I think it's a one up one pasties. Don't ever wish you were white
Let's see that face?
im not keen on posting pics so the most i can do is make myself in a shitty anime character maker
shut up you stinky scrub its like you cant read
>bags under eyes
>resting bitch face
Still somewhat insecure though I've come to terms with not being super attractive. I think im ok enough.
i hate tattoos (why fuck up that nice silky skin?), but other than that, you are sexy as fuck!
>resting bitch face
kek. probably that's why it is so sexy.
where? show it pls
Gonna be honest, if you want to be a little kawaii girl as a life style, you're just weird. You look younger and cuter than most anyways, below average weight and height too. Nothing to complain about. Sh.
I used to before I stopped going to the gym. Started working out again tho
Nice trips tho
My skin is still soft regardless of tattoo btw
Everything stems from how I feel emotionally, about my self, about the world, and I worry often about how I may be overwhelming in a conversation. Such as, earlier today, I was having a talk with a friend of mine, and I always feel like I'm being too much, I feel like I'm trying too hard, and on some cases? I just hate how I can't relate to the issues that many of my friends have, as I feel that it purely makes me look like an insensitive asshole, y'know? Such as, earlier in the week, the entire system got wiped for a project that a group of friends and i were doing, and when I had gone over to the younger groups area, they were all crying, when it was honestly just all busywork that they were given to learn our subject (Drafting using AutoCaDD.) And these people... They were so shaken up about it, they felt that their ENTIRE education was fucked because of the system wipe, because they thought they needed EXAMPLES for college. I couldn't understand, so, well, I did what I always do. I laughed, and did my best to be positive, and tell them what I though about it (As such above.) However, I think I'm finding out what the major thing is. I'm being too analytical over the situation rather than focusing on the actual people surrounding me. This happens when I play DnD as well, and I try too hard to take over control and get the best results. I don't know whether thats good, or bad, but honestly? All opinions are welcome. Otherwise? The only bad thing I can think of physically is that I feel that my arms are too small, like spaghetti.
I don't see resting bitch face, its not too bad. You don't look sour, just a little grumpy. Its cute, really, and you do NOT have a Jew nose, trust me, I dated a chick who was Jewish, and he nose? Was the epitome of Jewishness. You don't have that, its a nice nose, really.
Eyes aren't small, they're actually quite nice to see, your hair doesn't at all look bad, seriously, it actually matches how you look, and it fits:)
nah, that's a pretty nice bum right there, perfect size. (really would like examine it more)
>>My skin is still soft regardless of tattoo btw
i bet. Will you get more of them?