If this isn't a celebrity you have really good facial aesthetics. Yea, people are going to call you a "nigger" here or w/e but at the end of the day this is just some weird fringe eastern hemisphere cartoon drawing imageboard
>>22716311 I can't talk to women in real life. My teeth start chattering and I begin think of the many ways I'm inferior before I even come near them. It'd be pretty much impossible for me to get a gf unless they approached me. And you look good too senpai, no homo
>>22716343 >>22716353 T-thanks you guys. >>22716357 YES DUDE! Like I legit start fucking shaking, I'm not even making this up. I always have to lie to the girl and say I'm cold. Nice to share feels with a fellow autist.
>>22716383 Yes it's me. This is my just woke up look kek. Seemed fitting for this thread.
Well I could write a book on why I'm insufferable. I guess saying I had a weird childhood which lead to no security and abandonment issues will make you gather an idea on what type of things.
I have dated 3 times in the past, 2 were serious. I have an interest in dating, just not in the near future because I recently had a very bad break up. I love being in a relationship but it does bore me sometimes, which might be why I sabotage myself. They don't intimidate me really, the only intimidating thing is the impending doom kek.
>>22716101 I have pretty much given up at this point, i dont fit in, and i probably never will. I missed out on any form of social life from 13 to 17 years old, and that combined with my outgoing analytic personality and strong (read stubborn) caused me to only have a small circle of very good, but few, friends. I have a hard time connecting to people who dont dare to try new things in life, and i absolutely despise some of the values many seem to have where they judge a person based on appearance or situation, not on personality and their actions. The result, combined with my unrealistically high expectations of myself, since i only compare myself with the absolute best in any interest i pursue, cause me to feel inadequate and incomplete, which leads to a bad spiral.
Since i have never felt attractive due to me being very unattractive from the age 9 to 15, and me having a very "young" face, i never really think i stand a chance, something which leads me to never actually notice if and when someone shows interest in me. Its not even about the sex anymore, i just want something closer then my friends, someone i an trust, someone who i can heal of when they are in pain, and someone who can heal me when i am devastated. Someone to binge-watch adventure time with, someone to simply enjoy a cold winter morning with underneath a warm bed-sheet. This shit fucking hurts, and it causes me to slowly loose interest in life since everything seems so goddamn bland and pointless lately, i dont think i have ever felt this down and alone, despite having more friends, working, studying and being active in more organizations then ever before.
But i just cant, i always end up somewhat sober, talking to someone i can relate to, but they are always taken, or showing 0 interest in anything else, and i don't mind that, i like having conversations, but at the end of the parties there are usually only people left which i have nothing in common with, and its by then i go home myself, and its on the way home the whole crushing experience really gets to me, thats when i just feel like talking a long ass walk, sit in a park and do nothing for several hours straight. It has gotten so bad i almost dont want to attend the parties anymore, because i know it always ends this way, no matter how hard i try to make things go a different path.
>Dreamed of a warm summer day tonight, was riding a bike at a road near my childhood home, slender fingers were wrapped around my waist, i dont remember what i said in the dream, bur a soft voice and a sweet caring laughter met me back. When we stopped at a field i loved to take photos of, i felt her hand on the side of my cheek, she slowly turned my head and her lips met mine, i could almost feel the warmth. >then i woke up, i legit almost started to cry >slightly worried about my mental health at this point, hopefully i find something to obsess over instead of this shit, thats what has kept me going before
>>22716371 we all do, and i believe we all feel the pain of not having someone to simply enjoy life with, always tending to thing alone really can suck the joy out of a moment. You are very pretty if thats really you, i sincerely hope you find someone to care for, and whom cares for you, nobody should have to spend their lives like us.
>>22716311 is that really you? You look way to good to be a loner man, try finding an activity joy enjoy and see if you can find girls there, otherwise just go for tinder ... thats pretty much what im thinking about doing as a last resort.
>>22716427 I'm thinking more forever as in the forever that is coming, rather than the past. If you've never dated, just wait, the loneliness that comes after being left high and dry is a new type of loneliness. After each failing relationship, new relationships become harder and harder, which makes being forever alone seem like a real possibility. You dateless peeps have it easy, you have a clean slate.
>>22716311 I don't usually dig brunettes but top qt >>22716457 is right. >>22716457 Yes, I enjoyed even the tiniest of things when I had someone to share them with. I really miss it. It's hard to think someone you loved so much can just stop caring or even go off the deep end and end up hating you. Sort of turned me off dating. I'd really like to just have a nice family life when I'm older. Not into the muh feminism ima do wat I want I need no man-approach on life.
Tinder is sort of iffy, but I know many of my friends who met their current partners via tinder. They seem to be doing well. I met my past partner on Tinder as well (It's a stupid and long story, since I don't actually use Tinder :P)
>>22716508 For me, its related to why i post here desu, i feel i need to think that others can see me as attractive. Since i really have 0 game due to me never trying it, i almost feel like a need a grill to approach me. If i only get a clear signal, i think i just might enjoy myself, and id like to think im interesting enough to keep the other person happy during a date as well. It truly is strange that im so fyucking shy and horrible at this, when i have no problem speakign to an audience, have landed every job interview i have ever went to, and the fact that im according to friends "unironically" masculine" since i enjoy cooking, fixing shit with my hands, building stuff from scratch etc. I even have a pretty wide range of female friends (all of which are taken thank god) who seem to really enjoy having me along.
But then there is this specific part of my life which is nonexistent, did the nofap thingy and it has helped a bit but not much, now im pretty much monk mode and dont feel like watching porn anymore since it feels like a substitute for something i have never had, and maybe never will.
If i seem slightly depressed, its due to me being out at a party yesterday, and the same fucking pattern repeating ...
>>22716585 Thanks brah, i will try to, i have been along for so long now, i slowly have stopped caring. it only hits me at times, but when it does it hits so hard it feels like a can barely breathe, and that my utter existence means nothing, even though i know my family (especially my younger siblings) love me, and that i have friends who would miss me.
Still , a part of me dont really know what the fuck im doing anymore, despite me studying the engineering subject of my dreams at uni and having a life many would consider good.
I want to make it, i really truly do, but it becomes a little bit harder to believe myself each and every day
>>22716433 No homo yeah, but from what I can see you're an incredibly attractive guy and I think all you need to do (whether this would actually work or has any real meaning idk) is stop focusing on getting a relationship so much. Don't actively pursue it, just keep your eyes open and make your presence known wherever you go, this is what I did and it worked.
>finn costume on the shelf Nice Anon you seem dateable but you have to work out your self esteem issues first. You're very handsome, even with a youthful face and you have a fantastic body. I don't know if you're capable of growing a beard/scruff but if you could you'd be a 8-9/10 physically. I don't know how old you are but if you're not over 25 you still have time for your face to harden up a bit which it looks like it could. Men are still gawky and awkward until they're like 26, 27. All and all you sound like an intelligent and sweet man with high aspirations for yourself even if they kind of get mixed into your insecurity about being the best.
give it time anon, I think you'll find someone who loves you for your idiosyncrasies <3
>>22716549 I'm on /soc/ cause I deleted all my social media after the crushing break up. I isolated myself. So I ended up here after talking to some other anons on another board. I like having the stimulation of interaction without having to go out and face the harsh reality atm.
Don't place too much importance on your appearance when thinking about long term relationships. Men are a very 'looks first' gender when it comes to attraction and think females are the same. Attraction in females is more than half psychological. I didn't find any of my ex partners attractive initially. They were just meh plain johns. Once I started getting interested in them, I started finding them more and more and more physically attractive. I even adored their beer guts haha. So all you have to do is wait for that female to approach you and it will happen eventually I'm sure of it. Watching crime documentaries really have made me have a pretty firm belief that anyone can get a SO(So many criminals are hideous, so that's the relation kek)
I'm a very sexual person, but I don't enjoy casual sex so I'm celibate during the times I'm single, but I feel my sex drive has become the lowest it has been in years lately. I just can't enjoy fapping properly because of the weird correlation it has to intimacy with someone else in my head. I was out with my friends who are all couples yesterday, it didn't bother me that much, but I guess I just see them as having completely different circumstances than me, and maybe if I had the same circumstances I could have been happy with my exes to this day too. >>22716554 I stated >abandonment issues earlier. Common, having someone you love throw you away leaves you feeling pretty undesired.
>>22716665 >>22716371 lel, fucking normie girls always with their special snowflake shit. Fuck off. This thread is forever alone, i.e. you have always been alone. Not well, I dated someone but they broke up with me.
>>22716696 I feel abandoned by my entire family. Systematically so. I just always thought, meh you can't choose your family, right? But your partner you can choose, and they choose you. Having someone choose to take you into their life and then throwing you back out of it feels terrible. Mix that up with prior abandonment issues the loneliness and impending a lonely life sucks.
I want to find someone out there with the same drive and interests as me. I love movies, and well-told stories in general. I mean fuck how hard can it be to find someone to talk about Star Wars with without them being either a full autist or full of apathy? I dunno. My life goal is to be a film director, and things are going steadily in that direction, but I wish I had someone to share the adventure with.
I'm not edgy enough to think there's something wrong with other people. I like that I'm motivated where other people are apathetic.
So yeah, someone want to talk about movies / filmmaking / writing with me? I'm Mutie94 on Skype. >>22716433 I know those feels mate.
>>22716708 You are the definition of a ~*special snowflake*~, anon. Acting like being forever alone is some speshul top secret club. Forever isn't past tense ffs. OP never said this is a dateless virgin thread.
>>22716622 >>22716649 Thanks both of you, yeah atm im pretty much just focusing on studying, my problem is that between working extra, uni and the gym plus friends, i really dont have time for much else. even though i have several things (like singing) which i really would like to take up as a hobby since i have the talent for it
>Also yeah, im a HUGE cosplay freak, have a complete Rorschach, Constantine and Finn outfit, also have tons of other crazy shit (im the beer spartan this year as an example) Always loved dressing up and acting in general.
>>22716655 try working on your anger and read self-improvement books that are legit, i know this sounds like bs coming from another turbovirgin, but i had these issues in my angst period 13-16, this shit really helped me get my stuff back together
Also, no beard yet, will hopefully come soon though, have noticed that the cheeks actually grow thick stubble now, and all the men in my family look like fucking bears so there still is hope ...
>>22716743 No, I never said it was anything like that. OP used it as an adjective to alone, and forever means lasting or permanent, since your loneliness has neither been lasting as evident by the past, or permanent, as evidenced by the past, you are not forever alone.
It's not hard to figure out. Sorry, but apparently you think this is some top secret club because you're really trying to subjectively define reality to get in :^)
>>22716724 Maybe you have been but you didn't 'choose' them. >>22716727 I checked your trip and didn't see you reply to anyone. >>22716728 Find someone that is keen on learning new things. Many people like to fill their heads with pointless knowledge just because they find it interesting to know lots of things. So maybe you can find someone who doesn't give a shit about SW but likes to hear you talk about it etc. I get bored of people who are mirrors of myself, my past partners had very little incommon hobby wise but I loved it cause it introduced new things into my life and I could teach them about the things I was interested in without them saying "seen it. seen it. seen it. That so and so sucks. Your opinion is wrong because...." (This is common with people that have the same interest because they think their interpretations or taste is the ultimate truth.)
>>22716770 I have one really good friend who is good for a debate, talking about life, etc. Most of the time I feel like his therapist though. He's also super lazy and unmotivated, which is annoying because he's my friend and I want him to do well. Ah well.
>>22716410 Oh hey lol, I drew you. In a relationship are you clingy or are you distant? I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Do you think you have developed trust issues because of your childhood and past relationships?
Breaking up is hard. Bad breakups are damaging. I hope you can get through whatever is tormenting you from your past and move forward with your life.
I can relate to you in some ways, though I am not sure if you will feel the same. Right now I am focusing on building myself up, loving myself, and fighting through my issues so I can be emotionally able to be a good partner. Right now I know I'm not ready. I know I will hurt the other person because I am not in a good mindset. I am too selfish.
It is ok to take a break from dating. I have had friends who were terrified of being single because they define themselves by their relationships. If you believe you are insufferable, odds are you really aren't. Someone who is truly insufferable has no self-awareness and would not be able to recognize the bad traits within themselves.
Identify with what you love/like about yourself. Feed it, encourage it, and try not to get caught up in the noise. Dealing with past trauma is not easy. I am going through the same thing. Are you seeing anyone for it?
I was always the "ugly" one as a child. I was skinny, boyish and buck-toothed. Never stopped talking, had boundless energy and annoyed absolutely everyone around me. I was made fun of at school. I was "wolfgirl", the cringey autist-spawn who chased other kids around at recess and growled and barked at them. I was "bug-eyed".
Then middleschool hit. All of my friends had partners. I was friends with a lot of preppy girls, athletic girls who weren't ugly but not necessarily the most popular ones around. I always felt like the outcast and people STILL made fun of me...
Highschool came. I moved and left everything behind for another state, another school, in a big city. It was a rebirth. I didn't have to be "wolfgirl" any more. I could be someone new and cool. Someone likeable. I joined clubs, found "friends" and finally began to have a bit of faith in myself. Boys began to show interest in me. Still, I never felt like I really belonged. I was always a floater who drifted between friend groups and had more "orbiters" than actual friends. The persona I had given myself was a confident, powerful woman who did not have time for anyone else. Maybe I drove people away. I went to prom with a good male friend of mine.
I work over the summer at a very beautiful high-end resort in the Hamptons. People show interest in me there. Wow, if I could be liked in the Hamptons and I was "pretty" in the Hamptons, I can be pretty everywhere, right? Wrong. Because deep down, I feel I am still that little girl from elementary school. The one who is hated, laughed at and generally hated by everyone. I had to drop out of college because I hated myself so much and discovered alcohol and drugs, which drove the bad thoughts away and made me BELIEVE I was beautiful and worth loving.
This summer, I had a great opportunity. I was working with the winner of a TV show restaurant winner and he had a lot of faith in me. "C, you are beautiful. You are smart and you can do anything you want to. You need to FOCUS."
This meant so much to me. For the first time in my life, someone other than a parent, teacher or therapist told me I was worth something. Still. I was living with a bunch of other staff members and we drank all the time, partied and had fun. How could I focus when I finally had friends? I shut my family out of my life. They came back for me, I had to quit my job, and now I am a NEET living in my dad's house. I have severe anxiety. I cannot leave some days.
>>22716665 i feel you qt3.14 brunette, even though i am the definition of a turbovirgin, the whole being sexual thing just fades away once you realize you are sitting alone in a room looking at polygons moving, instead of feeling the warmth of a body next to you.
I mean since a am a man, i still oogle grills from time to time, but in general im simply a lot less sexual in my approach, i treat them just like i would a male friend, it has gotten that bad. Can relate a bit to the abandoment issues, and yeah that shit is fucking painful to a serious degree, there is NOTHING that hurts more then feeling completely abandoned and alone, to feel like nobody would care if you disappeared, to feel completely and utterly empty. That creeping sadness and desperation after human contact.
>oh yeah, im 22 so yeah, im really hoping for my face to keep stiffening up, just recently discovered i had cheekbones and a jawline, who knew
and since this is /soc/ have an obligatory >plzbeinsweden
>>22716823 I have never dated. I have never loved anyone else. I will never be able to devote myself to someone else and be a good partner to them. No one really loves me and I will always be someone's second option. These are thoughts I have often.
But is it true? No. Deep down, I know it is not true. I have let OTHER PEOPLE define me all throughout my life. Fuck that. Fuck them. Fuck whoever you are allowing to define you. This entire board thrives on it. But it is not healthy. There is a reason "normies" don't come here.
The moment you decide to BELIEVE in yourself is the moment when things will change. Yeah, it's not easy. It's not going to just happen. I'm not there. I'm trying my best to get there, though, and I hope my words will spark something within yourself.
Sorry for the rant. Sorry for the ramble. These are my thoughts on the matter and it felt good to get things out.
This week I'm enrolled in an in-house mental health program for adults with mental illness. Hopefully I will find closure there and be able to move on with my life.
>>22716655 dog you need a self-esteem building hobby
that shit will dig your well of compassion deep
>>22716665 >Watching crime documentaries really have made me have a pretty firm belief that anyone can get a SO aargghhh this is true but missing half the revelation. criminals can be hideous looking, but MORE IMPORTANTLY they have done hideous things and are potentially hideous people
>>22716761 So where is someone to go when they feel like they will ultimately die alone? My past relationships mean nothing. I feel like I will be forever, as in the forever to come, be alone. That's it. ( I don't care if I have unfruitful relationships til I dry up and become unappealing. I'm thinking of the bigger picture here.)
>also i can relate to you in so many ways its almost cringeworthy
People really dont seem to understand the ground issue for outcasts like us, we have never ever felt like we belonged with the rest of the group, no matter how hard we tried, this is not some "hurr durr im a special snowflake", its just a fact that we never developed the social skills like other kids did, or that we got punished for being different in the tight knit societies we lived in (myself, i was a fat book-worm who LOVED everything fantasy, i was also a boyscout and played the trumpet ... in a town with 7000 inhabitants, shit was cruel).
You seem like a tender and loving person, let me guess one thing about you?
You dabble between caring too much, and sometimes you dont want to care at all! Everything is a treasure to you, and you find everything so incredibly beautiful, because nothing will last, so everything and everyone is a miracle by default. When someone walks past you, you choose to see them as pretty, you choose to focus on what makes them unique, instead of their shortcomings. So when the world shows its true nature, the raw cruelty that lies behind all of this, you instead fall into a pit of despair, since YOU can not relate to the people killing, beating,raping and hurting others, It does not compute with you, and you feel scared and alone in a world that you fear but still love unconditionally
I know this may not mean much, but from the little i have read from the things you have typed here and in other threads, i would fall head over heels for you, you will turn this shit around, you will find something you enjoy, and i truly hope you will find someone who makes you feel as beautiful as you truly are
>>22716860 im thinking about simply going all in on the field of science im trying to learn, to simply isolate myself from society, to ultimately help it, i want to be able to create something that will advance mankind, it has always been my goal, and will always be. Never cared about fame or glory, i just want to walk past something being helped by something i helped create and think (hey, i was part of making that) thats all i ever really wanted, so if i cant be happy, at the very least i can make others feel joy
>>22716793 I feel I was less lonely before ever having had a relationship. One flop was fine, I had hope. This last one was tough and I just have no trust left and am afraid I will never mantain a relationship and end up being ultimately alone. >>22716802 Try get that in a girl, aside from the lazy part kek. >>22716812 Yup ;P I think in the begging I am distant, and get complaints about being distant. Then I'm on off 'clingy'/distant throughout the relationship. I just really enjoy doing things with my SO so it could be considered clingy. but as soon as something goes wrong (It's unavoidable in relationships, the point is to work past it.) I just go full on panic mode and become insufferably clingy. I definitely see correlations with how I feel about what my SO does to how I felt back as a child with my family, so yes. My second bf really... really messed me up, which definitely carried onto the next relationship. The ending was a mess, and I'm terrified on carrying it all into another relationship. Obviously you can try not to, but it always sneaks its way in.
Thank you, I like hearing what you have to say, because I feel similarly about others, but obviously I see myself in different eyes, so hearing that from someone else is reassuring. I'm always at a loss at how to reply to things that speak for themselves, but thank you. (I'm only good at replying to questions, and asking them, or agreeing with statements, but when it is made about a issue we are both sharing it's more difficult to reply in an according manner)
I have only been diagnosed with PTSD, but I'm not currently seeing anyone..I feel deflated and just don't want to relive my life in my head so I don't want want to see anyone right now desu. >>22716833 You were pretty aggressive to my feelings of loneliness, like they aren't valid. Didn't seem timid to me kek. But I love timid men, they always seem very... 'caring'. If you think women despise you, it will reflect.
My social anxiety disorder and autism caused me to try and discard the feelings that I developed on girls. I'd make up excuses of why not to ask them out and I'd go on until I found one decent enough to convince myself.
I'm in therapy now and things have been going a lot better. In group therapy I met this girl, she was cute, and after a while when I got to know her a bit more I fell head over heels for her.
I tried making excuses but I either debunked them or simply ignored them. I couldn't get her out of my head, but I was still too anxious to ask her to hang out. With help from my therapist and counselor I eventually managed to ask for her number.
We had some pretty chats on Whatsapp and I started to like her more and more. I told her about my feelings for her to which she responded: "Aw, how cute. Thanks. I kind of suspected that already."
Now I'm not an idiot and I knew that was most likely a rejection. I straight up asked her what she thought about me, if she had any feelings for me, if she could see us forming a relationship somewhere down the line.
She told me was a lesbian, but that she still liked me and wants to be friends.
>>22716959 Because it absolutely infuriates me when someone who has had a relationship, (especially a women considering the fact that they literally have men throwing themselves at them regardless of how ugly or annoying said woman is) claims that it is WORSE to have had someone. Loneliness is the state of being ALONE A-L-O-N-E. From an objective standpoint, you are not forever lonely. You have not always been ALONE . REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES
>>22716840 I use my imagination to fap since I find porn unstimulating. Or then hentai because of narration of how the person feels ect. So it's always more personal I guess, and I just haven't... been into it lately.
I always feel so hopeful during the begging of a relationship, I don't feel so alone anymore. But when it ends all the old feelings of abandonment come rushing back. My parents live in another continent, and we aren't close, at all. So I have nothing to fall back on except loneliness. I still have to get used to not having anyone to come home to, having no one to talk to, and feeling like this might be what life has planned out for me in the long term ;(
I like baby faces tho anon :P I was born in Sweden, but I'm a Finn, neighbor >>22716859 I didn't want to mention that, since some show no traces of their crimes in their personal lives, but a lot of them are horrible to their close ones too, so yeah. >>22716874 Or a forever alone thread on 4chan? >>22716908 Then don't read it. You're on fucking 4chan. Your statement can be said to anyone on this thread desu. If they all changed and had no standards none of them would be on forever alone thread, but that's not the case and that's why we are here. >>22716933 I have a similar mindset, but again, it comes to people. I really want to make just a handful of people that come into my life (eg. future family) truly happy.
>>22717024 You were asking me, I answered. >then don't read it I want to read it. >Your statement can be said to anyone in this thread You are a normative girl, with a basic normative life, who thinks she is non-normative, which is baseless rhetoric based off your own delusions. You can easily change because you are already what you think you aren't: a normie. Normies can get the fuck out
>>22716966 Things like that happen, anon. I truly feel that it will happen when it happens. I can offer advice to go into things as just friends. Just ask the next girl you fancy to hang out, and if you click, you will end up hanging out more and more, and then grounds for a relationship can be set. I have never been on an actual date myself. Hopefully you can still be the lesbians friend, even if you feel rejected. It will take time though, I suppose. >>22716993 Are you a robot? You must be. Losing something is worse than never having it. That is a fact. Losing everything you own stings more than if you never had anything. Losing a son is worse than never having one. Losing your new phone is worse than never having bought one etc.
>>22717035 Image was tl;dr >>22717067 If you want to read it, what's the problem anon? I never stated I'm not normal? I just feel I can't sustain relationships, so I will end up forever alone. What can I change, anon? Since I'm so utterly normal, what is there to change amirite?
>>22717101 >if you want to read it, what's the problem anon Can you actually be this stupid? You said don't read it, but if I want to read it, then ofc I will ahve read it. The problem is you're saying I should've not read it when obviously that makes no fucking sense. How can you be so stupid?
>I can't sustain relationships, so I will end up forever alone THAT'S THE FUCKING POINT. FOREVER ALONES HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ALONE. EVERY NORMIE CAN'T SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP
>>22717102 Memories that are painful. Never to be had again. Sure memories are nice, but I'm sure people would have rather not had the memories at all, but that is a disgusting thing to think of someone, so they bury those thoughts and continue grieving. You can't miss something you've never had.
>>22717117 You are just contradicting yourself anon. I think you will laugh at this when you are older with some wife and kids. >fucking normies reeeeeee You don't seem to have anything which suggests that if you by chance meet someone there would be any reason you will end up ultimately alone. I already have proof of why it is a huge possibility for me.
>>22716900 Thank you for the insight. Your guess is fairly accurate.
I hope you find peace within yourself. There was nothing wrong with the person who you were before. You are not a new person, but you have changed and will continue to change for better or for worse. It can be very hard to see light when you feel so down on yourself but remember it is YOU making yourself feel that way at the end of the day. Man, people are weird. Communication is weird. Really we're just "conscious" skinsacks on a floating rock in the middle of something which we cannot even begin to explain, reason with or understand.
We need to accept our humanity, the frailness of our minds, our bodies, and FUCK our egos.
EGOS GET FUCKED >>22716954 Hey. I know you are not going to believe this. You have already defined yourself in your brain and no amount of online impersonal validation is going to help you.
I see a much different person when I look at you. Other people have told me the same thing, but I do not believe them either.
"I just don't see how you could be depressed. You are so pretty, you are so smart, you are so funny, etc."
This makes me even angrier. Why are you lying to me? Why are you saying this? Do you know my pain?
Because it's in my head. It's in your head, too. You are good enough the moment you tell yourself you are good enough. Small flaws you see in yourself will be validated here. Sad people feed off of negativity and misery loves company. You need to believe yourself. Forget everything else. Forget this place, forget these shitty people.
I know you can't. It's addicting because, what if, just maybe, someone will really get you? Someone will really care and make everything make sense?
Not saying I get you, anon. Just want you to know I feel you, relate to you and wish you well.
Stop blaming other people for your problems. Stop dwelling in your misery and trying to bring other people down. Everything is relative. If you were in a healthy mindset you would see this and you wouldn't feel the need to harass and shitpost someone who is genuinely in a bad place.
Get to a place where you can reach out a hand to someone else, empathize and encourage. Being an edgy "I'M A SOCIOPATH xD" is just an excuse to give up on yourself and succumb to your misery.
>>22717139 >already have proof of why it is a huge possibility for me No, you have proof that you can have serious relationships with others, which means you have no proof of being forever alone. How did your mind end up being skewed so far from reality?
>any reason you will end up ultimately alone That's because I don't complain about my life.
>>22717153 Typical normie doesn't understand loss of human contact makes humans go insane. They actually think losing something is better than never having it. Little do they realize that people who have never had anything go insane and kill others and themselves, meaning their entire self was invested in something, such that obviously never having anything is worse because people who have had something never actually do the above.
Essentially, that is the normie world view because they cannot imagine anything different. They have always had EVERYTHING. Always remember normies MUST PAY
>>22716433 >>22716435 You're annoying as of now. You need to acknowledge the shit wrong with you and get over yourself.
Judging your appearance:
You look like a white supremacist nazi fuccboi.
Judging your personality:
You're melancholic as fuck and no one likes that, not even you. You are a handsome lad and it shows, but you have very little to offer - you are a 4chan poster, for crying out loud, yet you have the audacity to compare yourself with the absolute best (who?). I mean son, you are not out there curing cancer, but you want accolades.
Stop thinking you're too good for everyone. Humble down, be nice to people, even if they are retarded somehow, it won't affect your intellect, but it will do wonders to your self-esteem.
>>22717177 > Humble down, be nice to people, even if they are retarded somehow, it won't affect your intellect, but it will do wonders to your self-esteem.
I agree with this statement. It goes for everyone. You too, anon. You could have phrased this post in a much more constructive way but you chose to let your own emotions get involved. Good food for thought, though. Thanks for that.
>>22717176 Ones that don't last, therefore have no meaning when it comes to loneliness. I have proof I always end up alone in the end. You complained about my petty post dude, I'm pretty sure you've got more where that came from.
Your reply to anon is so fucking stupid, like >>22717168 said. staph.
>>22717215 Most relationships don't last. Basically, you're saying I have proof I will always be alone because I can form relationships with others and so far they haven't worked out. This is the case with all normies, the difference is they are/have/can form a relationship as you can, like you, as you are, come to me as you are, now, here, go. Your fucking stupid and a normie. That's all there is to it.
>>22717206 >be nice to people What a worthless idea. BECOME STRONG AND SHOW THE WEAK NO MERCY --Elliot rodgers
>>22717233 Yes, so if they don't last, get what someone ends up being? alone. and if they continue not to last... how long are they going to be alone for anon? Put the pieces together. You have just as much capability to get into a relationship. You choose not to, because then you will be what you despise.... > a normie.
>>22717247 >You have just as much capability to get into a relationship. >Normies actually think it's THAT easy to get a relationship Fuck you. It's easy for women of course, but not for socially inept men.
>>22717247 easy for a normie grill to say because it is easy for you. not the case for the rest of us. you aren't really that naive are you? You actually think your experiences apply to everyone else? What a joke.
>>22717177 I know my appearence atm is pretty off-putting due to the fact that im 6.25, in decent shape and due to my unfortunate buzzcut i now have a jar-head haircut. Normally i have middle-length curly hair just to tone down my appearance.
And yes, i awlays hide this side of myself from others, as i told you i have friends. And i do dare to say im very good at many things, i have been the champion of two RTS games in their respective EU mastership's, competed professionally in two FPS games. I have worked at two high-end restaurants with no real prior experience, i just went in there and showed them i cooked on a molecular lever at home for fun, and somehow got hired. Im not saying im good at everything, i suck at many things i WISH i was good at, but i never see the point in doing anything unless you can break new ground while doing it, its a problem i have, i never want to be average. It just does not seem worthwhile doing something unless you can improve. And im NOT thinking im too good for everyone, its pretty much the contrary, even though i know i have done a lot for my age, i still feel inadequate, i dont think im that interesting, and i dont seem why someone would want to love me. I feel like im living a lie, like im hiding behind a mask. My nearest friends know this side off me, and they respect that, thay also seem to enjoy myself at my very core, because while i can be very melancholic, i also find everything worthwhile, i find every person i meet interesting, Im very childish in that aspect, i have always been curious, and i will always continue to be.
Not claiming to be smart or superior in any way, just very curious and with slight autistic tendencies regarding tunnel-vision once i catch an interest (mother is shrink, the words are hers) This can be pretty fatal to relationships since i usually push too hard rewarding the projects i do, and end up exhausting people i care about when they sometimes cannot keep up
>>22717277 I want a pure cute girl to cuddle with, marry, probably not have kids with, but do things like ride around town at night listening to music, workout together, watch film together, and many other things. I'd also settle for at least some degenerate I could just fug all the time for free, because the first thing is just a dream, and a guy like myself can't really hope for that. And I do agree with him. From my point of view the normies are evil!
>>22717206 and yes, i know i am here, i like the anonymity of 4chan, here people can say what they truly think, there are no boundaries, you think im a strung up fuckboi, and you dare to say that to me. There are no false smiles, no white lies, and nobody is worth more or have a higher social hierarchy here. its refreshing, and since many people here have the same problems as me, it feels very very comforting knowing im not alone. >and bonus regarding the haircut, bought awesome leather jacket 2 weeks before buzzcut incident >cant wear it cause i would look like i came tight out from a goddamn concentration camp >am actually the most tolerant person you will meet, never ever judge a person based on how they look or act, only judge them on their actions and their true personality, since i have met so many fantastic people when traveling :/
>>22717376 It is your fault anon. That's the thing. I accept that I will end up alone because of my own doing. You honestly sound like you have NPD. I feel like lots of anons who go on about society and normies seem very self absorbed and just scream NPD
>>22717376 Who told you it's your fault? Why don't you have the opportunity to have what they have?
Because someone was born rich? Because someone was born beautiful? Because someone was born sane?
Why are these things affecting you? So WHAT! You are you. You can type these things here but at the end of the day you are a human behind a screen. You are a human light and you will be extinguished one day.
We need to stop dwelling on what we cannot change. We need to stop dwelling on other people. What is progression? What is evolution?
You are not above anyone else. No one else is above you.
>muh biology >b-but look at the animal kingdom! >beta animals get fugged :-(
>>22717422 We all have our lowpoints and weaknesses.
Do I want to die like I did last week? No. I want to live. I want to have the things other people have. I will work for them because I have never worked hard before. However, I know the feeling is still in me and it will resurface at the littlest failure. So it goes.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel for each of us. My life has ended but it has also just begun.
Glad to hear things are looking up for you. A change of scenery never hurts. Looking to Switzerland myself. Used to love it there as a child.
>>22717389 It's not my fault if I don't have a chance. >>22717409 The combanation of the genetic and environmental influences I have been exposed to resulted in me becoming the person I am today. I did not control these. I never asked for this. I can't just change everything and make myself a normie. Also, humans literally are animals senpai.
>>22717457 NPD ALERT. Get a grip, people have had worse, and done just fine with women. You just want to scapegoat. If we are animals learn your place and settle for the lowest in the food chain and you'll do just fine.
>>22717483 Good night and good wishes. >>22717486 Will there not always be a need for men to sweep the streets? Will there not always be a need for men to man the machines which make clothing for the better men to wear? Will there not always be a need for laborers, for childless producers of society?
Accept your place in line. You are a slave to yourself for as long as you wish to be one.
Good luck to you, whoever you are, whatever your name is. Continue to wallow in the negativity you shit out.
I've almost started enjoying it desu. I have one close friend irl and a few online and I basically just get drunk on weekends being offensive and making normies uncomfortable and then once I've been kicked out of everywhere/the bars are closed I walk around campus or downtown smoking black and milds until I get tired,
>>22717486 You were born with a silver spoon up your ass and your blame the world attitude shows it. >>22717625 Sounds good anon. I have no one to leech netflix off of anymore ;( >>22717830 You are spitting image of her. She was deffo a chubster. Are you american by any chance?
>>22717848 shes not chubby at all.. are you anorexic?? like.. shes pretty skinny. not extremely skinny no, but shes not chubby in any way. and thanks i guess (if thats a compliment) also yea im american, why?
People competing all over on who got hurt / feels hurt the most so they can drain some sort of masochistic pleasure from the pain: The thread.
I've seen this kind of shit far too often for a lifetime, I tell you.
There was this pretty girl who suffered from major depression because she was sexually abused from 6 to 13 and even after my most sincere efforts throughout the teraphy sessions wasn't able to prevent from doing something really stupid with herself in the end.
Point is: She agreed all the memories and all the scars and everything else was long buried in the past and also agreed ( and further proved at some handful occasions ) to me she could find happiness if she wanted to, but then sadly concluded she wasn't willing to actually pursuit this kind of goal thanks to rationalizing she couldn't possibly be worthy enough of such outcome, as if she deseverd punishment all along for some reason.
She mentioned to me what in english would've been loosely translated to a "state of numbness" with the whole pain that bleeded from the memories working as some sort of defense mechanism so she wouldn't have to actually confront her demons... In a pretty wicked metaphor, she ended being nursed by them instead.
I can see her eyes on a bunch of the posters from this thread. This maso circle jerk is bad for ya folks.
>>22717861 NPD. You show all traits of someone that has everything handed to them. Now that you have to offer someone else something to get something in return you're at a loss. Silver fucking spoon. >>22717869 You sound like you came straight outta /pt/ or PULL
>>22718112 >person who was given opportunities to get a relationship >telling others they're from a silver spoon reddit go. It's not my fault you you're a useless whore who fucks up every relationship you have.
>>22718190 You're so fucking thick I dunno if I want to laugh or cry. You are delusional anon. Just stop being so self obsessed, that it the only circumstance you need to overcome to get a relationship.
The only reason you can't get a lasting relationship is that this is the norm for every young couple I've ever seen. You want a lasting relationship, go for desperate ugly men in their 30s, they'll never let you go. But you wouldn't do that, would you?
>>22718503 Haha, I actually would go for that, but no healthy sane partner will be in their mid 30's yet pursuing a 18 year old girl. Once I age, I won't doubt the older mens personalities for pursuing me, so I just gotta see how it plays out.
My ex was closer to 30 than 20. And like I stated earlier, looks don't play a part in my partner selection because of the reason you stated... uglier partners tend to last longer. Very attractive men just scream red flags to me so I don't pursue anything with them.
I mean yeah cool you can say you'll date me But what does that really prove other than I actually have some decent looks and I'm just a socially anxious retard? And even that's extremely dependant on person to person. I guess I'm just proving why I'm still fucking single though.
I'm about to turn 22 next week, and I had a break up with my ex-gf recently. I know I'm not ugly, but I get painfully nervous around people, especially girls. I fear I'm being analyzed all the time or that I'm too weird.
>>22718955 I'm just a terrible partner. >>22718993 kek. I think uggos cry about not getting laid, but they don't get that the people who want to be in a relationship with them are the type of people that will stick around. Sure attractive people can get laid more easily, but that fulfillment is very short lived and pretty risky. Attractive people can attract the scummiest of scum. Like I stated, I just stay celibate.
>>22719024 it's pretty shitty to be a person who doesn't care for casual sex at all but is only ever pursued for very superficial reasons. I just want somebody who wants to sit and cuddle under the stars with a blanket and a joint and talk about our lives into the night damn it
>>22719075 Tbh, most men that have pursued me have been looking for something more serious... but I think that's just because of how I hold myself... I'm not sure desu. But by any means I can't comment on that ;P It will happen anon, just don't settle for trash women, and you'll have someone you'll enjoy talking to.
>>22716435 Life's so strange. I have no solutions or answers to my problems and existential questions. I do not have the strong belief the future will be any brighter, however if I can live a life I won't regret, that would be sufficient.
Why do I keep convincing myself I have any reason to be depressed, Like my life is so horrible that someone out there should listen to all my problems and offer me sympathy. Ridiculous. Someone should have taken my place in my mothers womb. Someone more deserving of the blessing of life, someone who could appreciate what they have. Anyone but me.
>>22719164 In all honesty, I don't even want to get laid anymore. I'd resign any opportunity to have sex if it meant having a real friendship with a girl. I'd chop my dick clean off if it meant having a meaningful relationship with anyone, It's not being put to any good use anyway. At this point it's just a receptacle for a redundant sex drive that will never succeed to fulfill it's purpose. I've gone months at a time refusing to masturbate just because why bother? 1 minute of mild pleasure just to crash moments later landing face first onto the cold hard reality that the ecstasy that act creates is meant to be shared with someone you love instead of used as a way to kill time alone in front of a monitor. I want to hold hands with someone, just to remember what it feels like to share something real.
>>22716410 >impending doom that sounds just like something my ex would say... my own problems aside, her abandonment issues used to cause so many premature confrontations... how do i keep someone like you? how do i make someone like you feel safe?
>>22720026 Forgiveness is key. I feel terrible for the shit I put my exes through, but desu they weren't perfect either, but I was good at nipping situations in the bud. Not everyone can do that, so you just have to learn to not take things personally and know it's a reflection of something else completely. She probably has memories playing out in her head that causes the confrontation to explode. Sounds like a tiring thing to be in a relationship with me... I don't know why anyone would want to put up with my shit desu.
>>22719722 Pretty much same as me, i dont want to off myself, because as i already stated, the simple fact that i exist and can become suicidal is a miracle, and how weak of a character would i be if i cannot endure this pain since i already have for so long. With that being said, the longer time floats, the harder it gets to see the end of this lonely path, and it feels like you are walking in circles
obviously im just speaking from personal experience with my own fear of abandonment gf, but between the abstract, fatalism and the witty, self-effacing banter theres a lot to like.
that said, as much as i enjoyed relating to someone as predisposed to extended bouts of introspection as myself, when we brought each other into the present, that was what i really loved.
the down-sides (as im sure you know) range from insular co-dependence to neurotic pseudo-moral skirmishing... im still grappling with the loss, but i dont want to waste this pain on anything short of self-improvement.
i just wish my family wasnt the kind to respond so poorly to the blood in the water...
Have been single for quite a few years now. Have been used and cheated on repeatedly in past relationships. Has led me to be very withdrawn and weary of women. I do not get approached or hit on by females and am to shy/ scared to do so myself honestly. All i want is someone to give my love and affection to and have theres in return. This be my sad,lonely existence.
22, kissless virgin. Never really fit in when I was growing up, on hindsight it was Asperger's syndrome which for some reason was never diagnosed when I was young. I have a small circle of friends, but most people I meet I end up losing contact with.
I am attracted to girls but I don't really bother chasing one based only on looks, I have to have a conversation with them to determine if they're 'right' for me. For example, I can't stand girls who only talk about superficial things or can't hold their own in intellectual discourse. To date I have only crushed on one girl, but because of my aforementioned Asperger's I have no idea on how to read the signals, but my gut feeling tells me that she isn't interested. My story isn't as long or elaborate as many on this thread, but I do want to change and any help would be appreciated. Also, rate me and tell me what I can do to improve my appearance if it isn't too much trouble.
I dated a lot. Got laid a fair amount. Got married and had 2 great sons. But, not once did I ever feel not alone. I left my wife because I felt more lonely being with her than without her. There was someone once a long time ago. But that was a long time ago... and I'm closer to the end than the beginning so I've resigned myself to always being nothing but alone to the core. But I still love so many things. It doesn't stop me from doing that.
>>22719136 I'd honestly just like to say I'm an atheist, and probably one of the uglier guys in the thread (to the point I'm forever alone and won't bother with a picture) and that there's handsome dudes in here with great muscles and faces and hair depresses me immensely......
but you're a real qt, I don't get that hypocrite ex at all, I hate that feeling of being unable to attach (involuntarily) to anyone (even if you still had someone who could make you feel that way - which I don't....)
and uhm.... grief why did he get all that good luck :(
>>22720453 Because I have never had a lasting relationship.... And I spend a lot of time alone. Much more than I want to. I've been told that I am charming, intelligent and talented but I just have never been able to make it work in a relationship and now I'm just about giving up.
>>22722741 Throwing this out there since I've been though that. 4 year relationship and then her and my best friend of 8 years wound up fucking for like 2 months before I found out. It sucks. Honestly it does. But I want you to know it will be ok. Do your best to distract yourself. Focus on improvement. Honestly one dude to another you look pretty good. Don't worry about girls right now just focus on yourself. Try your best to be happy. Try to focus on today not the past. Good luck.
Im not really the one who would go out of his way to ask and take a girl out on a date, and keep doing it until something bloomed
Actually, the whole concept of dating scares me, due to the fear of rejection, the feeling that i need to be this perfect boyfriend in their eyes for the date not to fail, and constantly only being attracted to gals i think are always above my league
Its not so much that i want to JUST date other people, its how scarily more than that it is. When i see someone i can imagine a future with them already and because i have a 'i will sacrifice anything as long as it helps the relationship, i will do just that, even if it means they can walk all over me, as long as theyre mine, i'm happy. I almost dont care if we have opposite personalities, we dont get along, or that im a hundred times stupider than they are. Just let me love you. Let me try to build something out of this. But it never happens. Too many find a fault with me, and just give up. I almost feel like giving up in finding someone I would die for too.
>>22716812 Hard to believe, but okay I guess anxiety is a bitch. Just saying you're possibly the most beautiful girl I've seen on the entirety of this site. I really like girls that can rock short hair and have you know, insanely good facial features and big, gorgeous eyes. Which you have every one of those.
This is the shit that makes me feel forever alone. I'm decent looking, I could be as patient as you need me to be, I can be caring, understanding, loving. All I want is to meet a girl like you, but it's just never going to happen. I hate this world.
>>22725458 Winter is coming... I wanted to spend it with my partner drinking coco, cuddling, taking winter walks, having sex for warmth etc. Winter is a pretty depressing season. & now I have to spend it alone left high and dry instead of how I planned
>>22725157 Wow. Thank you very much, anon. Good luck to you and I hope you can find someone who suits you.
I don't seek out relationships, regardless of the the type. Family, friends, and especially romantic relationships. I push people away to protect myself and then wonder why I am lonely at the end of the day. Personal connections are nearly impossible for me to make although I have plenty of professional relationships with people.
>"How does anyone get close to you?"
My life. I don't know why I do it. I try to act like I am confident and self-sustaining but as the years go on I am finding myself with less and less "friends".
Right now I have no one. I have cut everyone out of my life, even people who genuinely seemed to care about me. I am rigid and standoffish to people who approach me but I don't mean to be.
I hate romance. I can't watch movies where romance is involved. In my mind love is for weak-minded people who don't see the bigger picture. But I know it's not true. I hope I can learn to change this pattern of thought.
I don't know if it's me, or if the girls that live near me are too picky or whatever.I know i'm not 11/10, but I don't think i'm terrifyingly ugly either. I'm generally a nice guy to everybody unless they prove me otherwise. Women don't even look in my direction most of the time.
>>22726696 That duckface and no chin look isn't qt. Have any better pictures? Lose weight if you feel it's preventing you from getting into a relationship. >>22726687 Why? You're pretty qt. Are you a douche or what repels the women away? Or aren't you into women?
I don't want to be alone, but it's the way it's been for the past ~15 years. Only really had 1 girlfriend growing up, but I was too young for it to be meaningful. Never had a sexual experience and never properly felt love.
The only type of people that show interest (online) are guys... and I don't swing that way.
>>22726731 Doubt it. See >>22726550 >>22726729 Where are you from anon? yeah, you're fat, but not a whale yet. Just try cut out shit food and you'll see a big difference. you're pretty cute, so I don't think your weight is the underlying issue. Do you have terrible esteem issues?
>>22726703 I'm too much of a beta and have been pretty depressed for awhile. I haven't kissed anybody in over five years. I had somebody I was seeing but she got tired of waiting on me to man up. Several friends have offered to take my v-card only to back out.
>>22726732 >>22726732 My lips curl up a bit when I smile with my mouth shut. I've lost 15 lbs earlier in the year but gained 10 back from being lazy and feeling sorry for myself for dumb stuff. Idk. But I just got back to counting calories.
>>22726749 It's mostly a weight issue. I'm the fat friend so guys don't go for me haha.
>>22726784 Ugh, 'muricans promoting something unhealthy just cause 'everyone is beautiful' >>22726771 Counting calories is torture, and you'll probably give up. Restriction is the best, although people tend to think the opposite. Rather stick to organic and things you can't buy in boxes, you can eat that shit in bulk, and deffo lose weight without counting calories. Once you learn to cut out all the shit food you eat, you can move onto cutting down portions ect. Cravings fade once you restrict a certain food for long enough (eg. don't eat pizza for a month or two and you will not crave it again.) Diet soda is normally seen as the devil, but it actually really helps as to be a treat. As long as you drink a glass of water along side it. >>22726775 Same thing here ;P I don't let people treat me badly, but I deffo can go on the deep end quickly at the slightest sign of manipulation or poor treatment on their part.
>>22726827 I stuck with counting calories for awhile and I actually love it once I get in the swing of it. It's like a game for me in a weird way. But yeah biggest part for me is portion control as I had the tendency to get upset/binge eat/repeat. I'm a bit over my slump now and just want to look good naked -- which is really all the motivation I need. >>22726830 michigan
>>22726827 Yea I feel you! If I get a shady feeling about my partner, it just alters the way I talk, the way I behave around them etc, and thats when I know it's over. Still got hope for the future though!
>>22725898 Lol as much as it would be hilarious that my experience turned me into a man hating feminazi, I'm actually smart enough to realize he was a cunt, but him as an individual not an entire gender.
To start things on a superficial note, you're attractive. You put a lot of effort into making your body nice which reflects well on how you might take care of someone else. Youre sociable and easy to speak with. I really don't know how your self-esteem has gotten as low as it has, but you shouldn't beat yourself up about something that's not really wrong!
I'm mainlyalone because I have solitary hobbies and I work in a field that doesn't have many other people in it (and zero women).
Whilst it's not perfect, I justify it to myself that its ok because I don't need validation or the company of anyone else to function. Sure I miss having a gf and it can be amazing to be in a proper relationship, but there is no point making that the be and end all of your existence, there are far better things to do with your time than devote it to the pursuit of some girl who you may only like out of desperation. That imo is a very shallow form of love and is a waste of everybody's time and emotion. Better to get on doing things that you love, and you may well come across someone who is amazing and truly likes you as a person, instead of just a thing to prevent loneliness.
In short, it's better to be forever alone than in a fake, sham of a relationship
>>22718009 I think it's probably Japan and Finland. Pic related. >>22726770 How old are you, anon? I'd assume some girl with a hero-complex would have snatched you up because you are genuinely conventionally attractive. >>22726857 That's why I consider not counting, it almost always leads to binging. Cutting out sit means you can 'binge' on low calorie foods which helps control the weight. >>22726917 I go full on protective mode, and for me it isn't soft and sweet, but pretty aggressive. I hope so too, for both of us ;P
>>22727551 >How old are you, anon? I'm 21. The girls with whom I was willing to just get it over with backed out. The girls that I actually have feelings for just give me terrible anxiety.
The girl that I was seeing who got bored of me? We spent three nights in a row cuddling on her couch with her just in underwear. I couldn't bring myself to even kiss her because it's been so long that I knew it would be disappointing, which is funny because doing nothing at all is infinitely many times more disappointing.
Also, I've driven across town and closed my browser so I don't know if my ID is the same.
Im not an unsocial lad. I can easily strike up conversations with random people anywhere. Ive just never had a real gf (like sharing your life with someone or having deeply involved relationships). I moved a few times as a kid and teen so friendships broke off every few years and ive been overweight since I was 13. I clearly have self respect issues cuse i treat my body poorly and waste my potential / am pretty lazy and unmotivated to be living the life I know I could be having and doing the things i want to be doing. At 23 (although i have made improvements) it feels that some things just wont change. Feels shitty to be friends with attractive, cool and well adjusted people but no one desires you or take the extra step to be your bro. by now you could probably guess that im a little selfish sometimes. at some point in my life it became okay to just "get by" and not give 100% but i just cant seem to shake it.
>>22728120 She didn't make a move then? You just need someone who is willing to be the one to initiate things. You'll deffo meet the right person since you're attractive. It really helps. >>22728447 Yeah. That's why I wrote it.
>>22728528 She went to sleep burying her face in my chest and would sometimes kiss my neck. I'd also kiss her neck and cheeks but we never kiss-kissed because OOH BOY were those some butterflies . I also had a super-boner the entire time every night. I'm basically twelve years old.
>>22728807 That situation sounds so strange. Probs because I'm overbearing and would have just kissed the dude on the mouth if he didn't make the move soon enough. :P (and do other things if noticed boner) I'd be pissed, but still initiate a plan :D
>>22729429 These sorts of situations always sound strange when I'm involved.
On another note entirely, my dad just called me to say that he accidentally killed our dog earlier today. WHAT THE FUCK. Thanks for your support and encouragements. I'm going to go curl up and die now.
I'm sorry to hear that. This dog we'd had since I was six. I was trying to convince my dad to let me take him because he was getting too old for such a dangerous day-to-day life, but my dad wanted the company.
>tfw found someone you related to on such level that you dropped spaghetti and obsess over The worst part is that I can try to find her at this social tomorrow night, but I would only be there for her.
>>22735771 Poor cat had no idea what was going on. Well, I highly doubt she bought that as homewear. She probably does wear it out in public. I'm just giving genuine advice. There is definitely a correlation of girls presenting themselves badly, and being lonely.
I was always a loner. But recently I have felt like i really need someone in my life, but since I didn't know anythin about dating I usually get blocked by social awkwardness and I can't even start a proper conversation. The rare girls I was able to dump sympathize with find me a bit weirdo ( i am) but kind.
>>22736664 You aren't a bad looking guy. I haven't seen your teeth or smile, though, which are honestly pretty key parts of somebody's appearance. I do think that you could stand to lose some weight (probably forty or so pounds, I'm guessing,) and it wouldn't hurt for you to put on some muscle as well. Sticking to eating well and exercising should give you a better sense of self worth. Or not. You'll just have to see. >>>/fit/ should be able to help you out. Make sure to do pic-related before anything else. Take any advice you here over there with some skepticism, as some of the posters are just passing on third-hand knowledge or memeing.
>>22737061 You look like osama bin laden with the beard. Old facial hair was better. I hate dreads, but you pull them off since you're a darkie. So the hair on the left is better, facial hair on the right is 100x better
The only people who will say it is better to have truly loved and lost are those who have never been in a relationship. Ending a relationship with someone you truly love (or loved) is far, far worse than being alone.
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