Post about yourself, what you're looking for, what you're into, post pictures, just discuss DD/lg relationships in general, tell stories, whatever.
Ever-changing hair, right now it's orange and black for halloween
Pale as shit
Pretty alternative as far as looks go too, got my lip pierced and I'm stretching my ears
Not a ton of experience in the scene, but enough to know what I like
Def looking for a Daddy who's more interested in the relationship than the sex, especially if he's not local.
Euhhhhhh have these i guess
Good evening little one !
I'm 27 and live in France.
I'm 5'7 and on the slim side, with dark hair and brown eyes.
Like >>22737729 said, I do not use snapchat but if you are interested in chatting and don't mind the distance (and my accent :3 ) don't hesitate to give some other way to contact you. Or you can always send an email at firstname.lastname@example.org
Have a good evening :3
It'd be really nice to have a daddy that would like to guide me to getting fitter, be it on or offline. I've been training on my own for the past half year and it'd be lovely to share my successes etc. Haha. That sounds weird after writing it down. I'unno.
I like cooking and I'm an art student, you'll probably get pictures of the results of both of these, if you like. Super creative and all that jazz.
I used to loovee sleeping in skype calls together with someone, so if that's a possibility then Yush, please.
email iss email@example.com
Heres a pic of me (18)
I'm looking for a little to chat with and play with. I'd really like a good mix of sexual and nonsexual conversation. I want someone I can be affectionate with and take care of while at the same time be able to enjoy a lusty relationship.
Interests: Video Games / Movies / Reading / Biking / Naps / Cartoons / Hiking / Camping
Kinks: Spanking / Orgasm Denial / Light Bondage / Cosplay /
The little doesn't have to be local but that is a plus. I'd like to find a little who's a good girl but has a mischievous side.
DDlg seems too good to be true for me.
I'd love to be cared for, doted after, to feel little. But it feels like I'm asking for too much.
I read about all of the little things that happen in this dynamic. Holding me when I cry? Making sure I eat enough? Watching me draw? Reading me stories?
Daddy's a protector, a rock, an open ear.
But I feel like I'd be such a burden after the novelty wore off.
I'm not used to being so vulnerable, showing my weaknesses. I feel like I'm supposed to be independent and be able to do everything on my own. Like admitting I need help is bothersome. Annoying.
I know that if someone told me this that I'd assure that people cared. But why should they? What do they get out of putting so much effort into another person? Some tail? Why would anyone want to take care of me?
There are so many expectations for a Daddy Dom. It doesn't seem like I deserve that.
Every relationship takes work and DD/lg is no different. There will be ups and downs, arguments, difficulties, joys, etc. I can't speak for every Daddy but for me personally being "a protector, a rock, an open ear" satisfies my own personal needs. It satisfies me.
For some people DD/lg is a novelty or a fetish and they don't need or want it to go past a certain point. For others it's a much more important relationship.
It takes work finding the right person but it's worth it.
I hope I answered your questions to some degree.
What we get out of it is love and affection. Think about how a child loves their parents. To a child their parents are everything and because of that there's a much deeper bond.
Also, at least for me, it gives me a sense of purpose and fulfilment to have someone relying on me. It's one thing to do something for myself, but even more so to do it for someone who I know NEEDS me. I guess you can have something like that in a normal relationship, but it feels different from a little.
There's several variations of DDlg as well.
There's people who have it as a subset of S&M, and the DDlg stuff stays mostly in the realm of sexual fantasy.
There's people who (which is what you're picturing), do it 24/7 in terms of the DD taking care of the lg in all forms, even down to picking her clothes and making her food or some such.
And you have middle ground in shades of grey of the two above examples. People who DDlg when in the mood, or who spend certain weeks of the year in 24/7 mode, etc.
I personally prefer it to be closer to the "DDlg" as a sexual thing" but I've always been interested in domination and gentle control.
That sort of thing gives people like you who don't always like to show vulnerabilities or weaknesses a chance to ease into it, and it eliminates the fact that the novelty would wear off. 24/7 DD (which a little of mine wanted) would raise the same issues you were worried about.
But it's not just a sexual thing. It's an emotional calming thing.
Oh gosh, I'm emotional tonight. You guys are making me tear up a bit.
I kind of feel like I might just burst out crying if I experienced this stuff. A happy sort of cry. But also a bitter one, that the fact that this is so special is because it feels so absent elsewhere in my life. I feel like I have to be so strong all the time, but being able to let that fall away sounds heavenly.
How much would I freak a guy out by doing that?
Not at all. It's healthy to let your emotions out, even outside of the dd/lg life style. Bottling up your emotions is bad. Being strong is a good trait to have and admirable, it's always healthy to let your emotions out when appropriate.
Everybody, and I mean everybody, need somebody to talk to. The thing that so many people don't understand about sub dom and DDlg and other such relationships is that it's not about Taking power, as much as it is about giving it. Giving your trust. Giving your vulnerability. Giving your sexual energy, Giving your love. and that works both ways, DDs aren't some olympus god the lg worships from afar, it's a real, working, breathing relationship, just one where the normal defined roles are a little different, and where a kink comes to the forefront more than most.
I've had littles, some formally, and some in kink groups in cities I'd lived in, and I think it's perfectly healthy to let yourself submerse in that kind of lifestyle, if only to be able to step outside yourself and allow somebody else to control you for a little while, especially if he's also making you feel very good in all the ways he knows how.
Freak a guy out by doing what, crying? I guess it depends on the guy, but it's not uncommon.
Also, what >>22739977 said. It's healthy to have an outlet and a partner you trust, whether or not you call him "daddy".
I've had none DDlg relationships where we relied on each other in the way you're talking about. It's called love.
I think she'd be better off with friends for now.
I'm willing and able to just chat with you and answer any questions you might have. No "Daddy" stuff necessary. I posted >>22739996
I'm not very good at staying in touch. I kinda just wanted to open up a narrative I've been musing over.
Right. Okay. It's alright to let my guard down. So easy to say but so hard to believe.
The trick is to find somebody worthy of letting your guard down with, and that can be difficult.
Kik tends to be an excellent temporary way to talk to people with no binding attachment.
Crud...I leave for 15 minutes to make dinner and I miss all this.
Anyway...I concur with a lot of what's been said. As for freaking a guy out...I would say it wouldn't freak out the right guy. The trick is finding the right guy but there are definitely Daddies out there would would not only NOT be freaked out but would embrace you wholeheartedly.
We've all sort of touched on the fact that every relationship is different. It would take you finding the right guy but that right guy would be the person you COULD fall away with. He would be the rock you need.
My DD has been distant. Littles, I read your posts of longing for the men that abandoned you and I'm feeling it now. I empathize. I sympathize. And I'll try to stay strong and hope that he comes back to me.
>Age, Sex, Location, Orientation, Role
24/M/US, IL dom/master/wanting to try out as a daddy for a little.
>What You're Looking For
Fun intelligent conversation. Age play but within the context of the role. I don't want to talk to someone who perpetually speaks like a child. I'm not looking for things to be sexual all the time, but I'm also not looking for someone who is going to take weeks to get comfortable being sexual.
>What You're NOT Looking For
Emotionally unstable individuals. I realize there is bound to be some degree of fucked up but don't lay suicidal thoughts on me days after starting to speak to me.
>What You Bring to the Table
Professional, intelligent, legitimately caring and compassionate. I'm a man of many hobbies and interests and I can almost guarantee there is something that you and I can relate together over.
My fetishes are as varied as they are many. I can get into pretty much anything other than scat, and I could even see myself finding that erotic in the right context. I've been finding age play more and more fascinating lately so that ranks up there with daddy/daughter play. Rough/forced sex as punishment. Slut sharing, Humiliation, degradation. These fetishes are amplified for me by being bound in the context of an otherwise caring and thoughtful person. I love the idea of having a darling princess outside the the bedroom, and having an unabashed slut behind closed doors. The dichotomy really gets to the heart of it.
On my phone so forgive errors, but my ideal would be having a submissive little who would be willing to try anything to please her daddy. I'd love to have a princess who would cuddle with my while watching movies but would not so innocently miss while grabbing for the popcorn and would find her hand grabbig at something else. She would squirm and wiggle her little butt against me, knowing she was teasing, and would accept her punishment for doing so.
You talked me up in the last thread. Are you the little that I talked to for aa moment on Skype who was going through some emotional stuff? If so I hope you've been doing well. You never responded to any of my last messages so I stopped trying to contact you. (once again, if you're who I think you are.)
D'aw. Why thanks! I try not to be yucky. Except for when it calls for it. If I haven't talked to you on kik in a minute feel free to message me. Life got a little busy and I might have neglected to respond and I lost track of a few of my conversations.
Looking for daddies who prefer aged 35+
I don't send naked pictures unless I realllyyy like you. Other then that I just chat :3