/soc/, I lost my job a few days ago and yesterday I got dumped. I'm pathetically requesting to be cheered up. Converse, joke, post good music, etc.
if you put it that way, that would be very exhilarating in like a scary awesome way lol.
i was honestly referring to sexting and sex as like options. not what came out i guess lol
Me right before going out with the boyfriend to see his friend play some music. He broke up with me later on as I was laying on his couch right after playing Smash Bros.
well it was just walmart, but now you got some experience in retail, did you apply at cosco or sams club yet? they start off at $12hr, I got fired in april from my job at an well payng auto shop from a rookie ass mistake hope that cheers you up a bit
He told me he really liked me, but that he knew he would never fall in love with me. It was like one in the morning and came out of nowhere. I didn't say anything, just bolted up, grabbed my shit and ran out.
I thought you were supposed to say "crippling depression who?"
nothing pathetic with asking to be cheered up
Yeah, I know how you feel. It might be because it's new, but I feel so shitty. Like I'm unlovable or something.
Probably tomorrow :) I'm catching up on the new episodes now.
Smile at the fact that red-heads with green eyes are the "type" for 85% (give or take) of all men, and you are likely qualified to work at Costco for twice the pay you made at WalMart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auEA9Ay6G0o <--- might make you laugh or never look at shrek the same way again, also you look like you enjoy metal, so i present you with a infamous band called king810
oh and made you look :)
Yes, but I'm not a natural redhead, I dye my hair frequently. I would love to work for Costco, I've applied for them. I hear it's hard to get a job there because no one ever leaves, hahaha!
If you had any reading comprehension, you would know part of the basis for this thread is that I got dumped.
Honestly she filled a lot of voids in myself that I couldn't on my own. Did that four a few years and made me feel like life was worth living then suddenly took it all away. Its most likely me longing for something to film those voids and memories of the person who actually did. Pretty damn frustrating when you hate that person but those memories keep reminding you of what you lost.
Haha, thanks. I guess I have "bitchy resting face" which makes me unapproachable. Also fat.
I would LOVE to land a government job. That would be amazing.
Tried cognitive behavioral therapy?
I can't help you out of this rut.
Seems like all the cute short-haired girls live in Oregon. How long did your relationship with him last and how bad was the break up for you?
I went through a break up back in May due to her cheating on me with someone in one of my favorite bands. It sucks and still feels awful since we were together for basically five years. I hope you're managing better.
Holy shit that must really fuck with you. Sorry to hear bro. I knew someone that almost did this to her bf but the guy (drummer) turned her down. Was hilariously awkward to witness in person at least
Yeah... I can't really listen to that band anymore because of all the emotion and frankly, anxiety that comes with it, but there's a lot more music in the sea, right? She was in a total emotional rut and as a result she was a totally unstable person at the time, so I guess it wasn't a huge surprise that she cheated on me with some squirrely looking white guy drummer with dreads. Either way, thank you for your sympathies matey, at least I'm at a point now where I feel like meeting other women!
It was only a month and a half. It was just a shitty way to be broken up with. He said he could never love me. Like, how do you know after such a short time? Am I that horrible? That's how I feel anyway.
Man that's rough. And a really low blow. I'm sorry, bro.
Good to hear. I'm sure now you've gained some knowledge on warning signs for instability. Best of luck on your ventures.
It is really hard to say what was behind that declaration of his. Maybe there's more to it, maybe not. Sometimes people put weird deadlines to certain "events" in relationships. While it is bewildering for this to happen early but not incredibly early, it is better in the end to know the relationship was doomed now than like a year later.
As for feeling terrible, time will cure that. Just gotta be patient and try your best not to feel like something is wrong with you.
His loss. You look really pretty, playful eyes full of energy. Guys you will find plenty, someone saying this excuse after such a short time is simply just an idiot.
But hey, best of the best: Fallout4 is out, so forget about the world, its time to explore the wastelands!!
Nothing. Just watching TV and wallowing, haha. Might play some League later.
LoL is the only game I play online.
Thanks anon. I just wish he could have sucked it up for like another week or something so it wasn't like RIGHT after I got fired.
I wish I could afford Fallout and/or a console to play it on!
Yeah you got double dipped in a vat of shit. In a way the band-aid is getting ripped off so at least the pain isn't being drawn out more.
Perhaps life will repay you by tossing a grade A beefcake your way, and hunkamania will run wild all over ya
I can only hope. I've had terrible luck with relationships. They're always really nice guys who end up just not being very into me.
I have consoles, just not recent ones, haha. Also I'm super broke. I used my last paycheck to pay all my bills for the next month.
I'm playing League. Cannibalcake, if anyone is interested.
It's like regular therapy, but it's designed to teach you coping mechanisms and change unhealthy behaviors. I'm going to be doing this also, I need it.
Aw, thanks. A smiling picture for you :)
I'll see what I can do. For now, this:
Well, to be honest it may not even be that you were horrible.. It could be as simple as your personalities did not mesh the way he wanted them to. My ex was a lot of fun up until the point where she stopped playing video games and being involved with music and that took out half the enjoyment of what we were. Just be glad he didn't lead you along for a longer period of time. I could only imagine that he was trying to save himself as well as you from prolonging something he felt inevitable.
In the end we all want happiness and I'm sure he felt that mutual happiness wasn't going to happen with you. I'm sure even if you were a complete saint otherwise, he would have his reasons to end it... Either way I'm glad to see people have been able to put a smile on your face if not just momentarily.
I see maybe I'll get into it one day I don't know. I just rather not deal with it right now. Brings up more pain than I can handle and makes me self destructive. Not positive to keeping my current life together. Things are doing okay for now and I want to keep them that way.
Here's a pic of my cats, they keep me happy.
Maybe they'll do the same
Really cool song, and holy shit that video was intense.
I guess it just doesn't feel that way to me. It feels like an excuse, honestly. We were having a great night and it just came out of the blue. It's probably my own fault because I hid a lot of myself from him. I was afraid he would be scared off by all my issues.
Yeah, I get you. Well, I hope things continue to go really well!
That cat laying down reminds me of my brothers cat Kayko. He is a huge cat. Like the size of an adult mainecoon but hes not one. He sorta acts like a dog. Will flop over for pets and attention purr any times hes pet. He likes to hang around my brother a lot. Plus he comes to you if you call him. Sigh, I miss having a cat. All I have is a dog and I really really dislike dogs.