Op will go first. >Be "talking" to an ex >had a great relationship before the break up. >both realized it was a mistake >we talk again but just as "friends" (fwb) >girl says she doesn't want a relationship right now. >I'm okay with that. >she tells me she understands its not fair to me to make me wait.
So here's my question. We've been talking for two months now. Still as friends with benefits. Both agree it is to be exclusive. She worries I'll find someone, I worry she'll find someone.
My question is, how long should I wait before I pop the question as to what we are? I feel like two months is enough time. Anymore and I feel she's just playing me or keeping me around so she won't be lonely.
>>22766896 Give her some smooches, bro. Be sweet. Spoil the cunt. Shit works if you play your cards right. Protip: give her oral. She is inclined to give oral back. Unless she's a prude. Then another tip: Find someone sexually satisfying. (It's hella important.)
>>22766900 That advice blows, don't spoil the cunt. This will lead to destructive behavior in the long run. If you spoil her now she will withhold more in the future so you will spoil her more. Just be sexually dominant, get her horny and tell her to suck it. Pretty much shove it in her face. No asking.
>>22766902 It wasn't a spoken break up. We were young and stupid got in a huge fight and she moved out. We both thought we didn't wanna be with each other. (Like I thought she didn't wanna be with me. And vice versa.) So really it was a large lack of communication. But in all honesty its irrelevant at this point. We both look at the past as the past. What happened doesn't matter, cause we fixed it in our time now. (Spent almost two years apart)
>>22766915 Well, I would say that if you feel two months is enough time, then it is. There's not really any set timeline that applies to everyone-- it has to do with the two of you as individuals and your relationship dynamics. If she still isn't ready to be more that FWBs, are you prepared for that? Would you want to continue as FWBs? Or would you prefer to cut if off and try seeing of you can move on?
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