Any virgin girls on soc? Seems like most girls here are sluts and therefore not girlfriend material! So if you're a virgin cutie post here! :D
>not girlfriend material
>Implying you can afford to be picky
>Implying you wouldn't throw yourself at a woman the moment she showed any interest in you
There's a reason you've never been loved
jesus how salty can you get? Most guys prefer a girl who hasn't slept around, don't come to this thread if you've fucked more than 5, and I get rated above 8/10 fairly often so I can be picky.
me, I'll pretty much take any virgin girl provided you're not obese.
>get rated above 8/10
>starts a virgin thread
Kek fag. I legit get rated 8/10 and I come here to laugh at you Virgins
It's weird around here desu. Sometimes a virgin thread is full of girls, sometimes there's none. Make a thread specifically for virgin girls 9 times out of 10 you get nothing but once in a while cuties overload. There's also a lot of them who will mention it in other threads but not post in these because it's too much autism. You can kinda tell by how they look and act anyway, all my female friends are virgins because they're nicer people
Really bad body issues I'm trying to work out. I just do not genuinely feel I'm attractive enough for anyone to actually, genuinely, want to have sex with, though I'm sure a lot of you would tell me different (I wont post pics though, sorry, because I'm not compliment fishing. Just explaining my own personal situation. I know I'm my own biggest critic) the problem lies 100% with me and my opinion of myself.
I look ok clothed, but I'm a trainwreck nude. It's like I got hit with every (majority agreed upon) negative/unattractive body trait you can think of. I don't wanna be anyone's "for the lulz" or pity fuck, especially not my first time. I want to feel like they're genuinely attracted to me, which I know I won't believe them until I feel like I'm genuinely attractive myself. Not to mention hardly any guy wants to be with a chick this insecure anyways.
So I'm working on myself first I guess, but theres still so much that I cannot reasonably change and I get haunted by my past image from time to time which hinders my progress. Its an uphill battle, but I think I'm still slowly working my way up. I'm just worried it'll take too long and my prime time will be up before I make it, starting me on another near impossible battle of trying to date in your 30-40s.
>All my friends are starting to get into the "in a long term, stable relationship with possibility of marriage" stage
25 And Virgin as a Weeaboo-Nice-neckbeard-fedora guy
I wonder if getting to know and falling for someone before the physical stage would be helpful, as in you are reinforced in knowing that someone wants you to be with you.
Maybe you're cut right out for online dating.
I really have respect for any female who is a virgin.
As long as you have a vagina it doesn't matter if youre a burn victim downs syndrome morbidly obese horse face you're still drowning in the ocean of thirsty cocks called earth. You are always being tempted by the abundance of guys who want to put their dick into anything that moves. Most Girls are dumb and vulnerable enough to fall for their antics.
I'd like to see your beaver!
Ignore me I'm just being dumb
I know that feel.
"Just get a girl who will love you for your personality, Anon!"
"It doesn't work like that anymore."
I mean it's ideal, but it seems like hardly anyone really dates anymore. At least not in their early 20s. Its all hookups until they start to feel the need to start considering settling down.
Plus idk, I think my problem would still stick in my current state of mind. Even if a guy were trying to date me and not just have sex, I'd still have that voice telling me it's all a lie because nobody actually wants an ugly girlfriend.
Honestly, I've always had issues with this, but my life went to shit after my ex dumped me. First guy I ever really fell deep for basically told me everything he said over our year long relationship was a lie to "get experience"/try to fuck me and then immediately hooked up with a much hotter girl... And then 2 more. Haven't quite been the same since.
I've never had much luck with online dating when I tried it, the guys are usually either middle aged or have the same mentality/insecurity as me. I don't even like myself like this, I wouldn't want to date someone like me either.
I really don't know if fixing my body will really fix my self hate, but it's all I can do to start/try. And fixing the things that I can might help me come to terms with the things that would require major surgery to fix. Like I can't ever change X, but at least I changed Y. Shit like that.
I just see it as everyone else on a boat going down that river while I sit on the bank in the same spot.
People are just whores nowadays. The lot of em'. They need to be destroyed, completely. Eradicated from this earth. Their destruction will be so pure, they will never have to feel again.
maybe you should just tuck your fat pussy in
if you had done that, there wouldn't be a problem
It won't take the sting away, but your ex was a very insecure person. Putting you down like that showed that he frankly isn't even worth remembering. I'm sorry he did that tho, nobody deserves that shit.
Lots of people do wait longer to date seriously. Maybe for you, it will take some time to have sex and find a good dude. But it will come if you work on yourself. It's all hard work and obviously it's very easy for me to blab and give dumb advice here, but you can do it. It's insanely difficult to come out of such negative self-perception, I'm sure. But not impossible.
You were treated like garbage but that doesn't mean the next guy will be the same. Be cautious, even a little guarded, but I hope you will find and see there are people that know you are worth getting to know and love.
If it makes ya feel any better, I believe personality gets your farther than pure looks, but the sucky part is that it can't be the sole factor.
Like you gotta be moderately attractive just to get the attention, and then your personalty does the rest. If you're a 4 and below, you just don't ever get looked at so you just don't get the opportunity to ever show personality.
I'm glad you understand my feels anon, hope it gets better for you.
I wouldn't go that far myself...
i'm a virgin who recently located the black lipstick i bought four years ago and never used during my goth phase
looks fucking ridiculous but this picture came out alright
>has had oral sex
Lol. No, bad Em. Go attention whore somewhere else.
>girls unironically always post their photo unless they have issues with how they perceive themselves to a great degree
Right, I'm trying my hardest to just better myself as a whole. IDK why he wrekd me so hard, maybe it was because I loved him a lot,maybe it was because he was my first sexual experience in general. I'm probably blaming him for my own issues, but it seems like since he kicked me to the curb guys don't even look my direction anymore. I never used to have a problem bouncing back from boyfriends or getting back out there. Now it's been 3 years since someone's even approached me irl and wanted to talk to me. Sometimes I feel like he's tainted me or something. I know thats just bullshit though.
I don't hate them. Hell I wish I could be more like them. Confident enough in myself and my looks to just have a night out.
I just turned 25 and I am still a virgin, only thing I've done is kissing. I have a lot of friends and am very social but when it comes to dating and sex for some reason I get shy and just can't.
dude i had a girl lick my pussy for like five minutes
shit went nowhere
i have never been fucking penetrated
might as well just post the same one unfiltered but it looks better
contrast was upped and made the colors more vibrant, that's about all the filter does
"Most young adults agree penile-vaginal intercourse is sex, but less than one in five think that oral-genital contact counts as “having sex,” according to a 2007 survey of undergraduate college students.Apr 8, 2010" fuck u skipper
You left yourself open and the person you loved kicked you in your weakest spot. It makes sense that it sent you in a tailspin. Sometimes that shit takes a long long time to get out of. I can't attest to the exact same thing but I had trauma in my younger days that stills bother me in ways and sabotaged lots of stuff.
Anyway, you seem really cool. And while I obviously can't claim that Id approach you given the anonymity here, I would definitely be interested in getting to know you better if we were in the same social circle based on this thread.
>implying she's confident enough about her looks ot post without filters and grainy pictures
Most young adults, like you, are retards. Guess what? Subjective definitions of little teens don't override reality!
Your fucking study is meaningless. Some random teens don't get to decide how definitions of words work in reality. Lel
who is that
bi. i love guys way more and typically i'm only really attracted to girls if they're heavily dominant/assertive or have quite a few masculine qualities
so like, i'm basically straight as fuck
wot? where do i live? east coast.
!!!!! you could just skip over them, silly
i am not, i apologize
i'll probably never succ
on the way
also, i've heard everywhere that hymen intact/no penetration is the whole big point so naturally that's what i'd think
drats, you would
So what's stopping you from just going out and finding some Chad? You could meet guys in any number of ways so why aren't you out there dating or being a degenerate?
>still grainy, shit resolution
>naturally that's what I'd think
true. How come you're such a petty bitch irl when you seem totally different over text? You're fucking magical
she has. she's just an attention whore who has self-esteem issues and needs constant validation.
i live in a really small town and i have standards? i dunno
i end up dumping most of the guys i date because they're insufferable to be around
i also feel suffocated really fast
only thing ive been told as far as lack of sex people were too worried about fucking up to try and fuck me? no one's really made the move
i go out of my way to socialize and i like being around other people, frequent parties when i get the chance, etc
chance just really hasn't arrived overall, but i still wouldn't fuck just anyone
i have my tongue pierced and an industrial in one ear and a simple cartiledge in the other, my earlobes are 00g
i took it on my phone, not really sure what you're expecting
you're obviously pretty desperate for conflict
you don't know me irl either so i've got no idea what you're talking about there
he either doesn't know me at all and is just shitposting or tried to talk to me and i shut him down due to him being overly bland or overall just a prick
judging by how he's acting now it wasn't much of a loss, lol
anyway, i figured you were saying you were butch
oh i must correct myself
i do know him
last time we spoke i made fun of him for acting like he had better taste than anyone yet only listening to generic sounding anime soundtracks
apparently he's really upset about it or doing what he always does - starting shit with random people in threads for his own amusement
we have these little pissing contests on a very regular basis, wouldn't be phased if i were you
depends on if you think puss licking counts as a loss of virginity i guess
Well thats /soc/ for you
And i dont think so i ask myself that also but i consider myself a virgin still
No lmao i guess i didnt explain myself well...
I am a biological male, but not manly enough since im still a beta virgin is what i meant to say i guess
Over speech, I consider that irl enough.
>shut him down due to him being overly bland or overall just a prick
Kek, no. I deleted you because you're a conceited bitch.
>listening to generic anime soundtracks
I linked you one song I liked. There were no tracks; I don't listen to jap or kpop music outside of that track. You said it sounds like a typically song, didn't listen to it, and acted like a general fuck about it.
Most of the time I listen to chill music, trap, hip-hop, post rock, classical, and rock in that order.
>it wasn't much of a loss
Maybe for me. You've rated me pretty damn high b4 kekkkkk
Last time I had a girlfriend was about 6 years ago in high school. Dated for 7 months, rarely hung out, kissed like 5 times. She was incredibly inexperienced, I was incredibly shy and not out going. Ended it over skype like a jackass because I felt like it wasn't going anywhere.
Fast forward and now I'm finally starting to feel a little more confident in my looks, except I still think like a high school chump and am myself still horribly inexperienced with even just plain old dating. So when I meet girls now they're typically not virgins, whether or not they're even happy with who they've slept with in the past, they all treat sex like a "Yeah whatever" kind of thing whereas I still dream about holding hands or cuddling.
I'm mainly just not comfortable with who I am and where I've gotten myself enough to put my trust into dating someone else. The past couple of years have just made me more jaded, insecure, and afraid. I'm a bit of an awful person basically.
desu I only consider sluts to be men and women who practice promiscuity. I've had sex with my live in partners, and the base of the intimate relationship was a partnership and of course 'love'. I never felt dirty or slutty afterwards. I've been celibate since the end of my previous relationship, and never plan to sleep around. But I don't like the idea that if you are in a long term and loving relationship that didn't work out, some of these anons would consider you a slut. As if people who have sex would give it out to anyone.
you haven't deleted me at all, i just checked
i've never been rude to you in our skype conversations beyond the typical amount of profanity, sarcasm and fucking around i would reserve to anyone i speak to
not really sure where the conceited bullshit is coming from, you know nothing about me aside from the stuff i choose to include in my posts
honestly dude, i don't know what the fuck your problem is
i can't chalk it up to you being incredibly antisocial and misanthropic, because that wouldn't be an excuse for you to act the way you do
i've gone out of my way to befriend you because i liked the fire but behind the text you're completely the opposite
quiet and fairly reserved
the fact that you jump on my ass whenever you see me in any thread (which coincidentally happens to be every single time i post, so i think you lurk a lot more than you let on) is enough to tell me that it isn't much of a loss, it doesn't matter what the fuck you look like
i find it funny that you'd call me conceited after saying something like that, though
anyway, considering the typical nature of your posts here and how frequently you go out of your way to either kiss my ass or shit talk me (according to you, you've done both periodically, which is fucking weird) this'll be my last response to you here
overall, you're a pretty pathetic human bean dude you should stop being so obsessive with this shit
if you're hot you're hot, that's it man
congrats on having good genes
>congrats on having good genes
idk why i humor him honestly i just don't want people i haven't had the pleasure of speaking to to think badly of me becuase of his bullshit
i've always really hated misconceptions
i guess i am that insecure, but fucc, this is /soc/
anyway yeah i agree man
i'm pretty cynical and i have resting bitchface and have been told for years that i look intimidating because of it, so yeah, you definitely could be right
he has the old ones that i dropped due to harassment that probably stemmed from him and he denied it
i'm not going to hand my skype out to someone i know nothing about
Oh, as if I read things :^)
Have a gif as retribution.
this probably sounds like generic bullshit and perhaps i shouldn't even be giving advice since i've yet to be genuinely into someone but
i think you'll both be fine
if you aren't comfortable with yourself that may never go away but i know whenever i felt out of my skin i'd go and change things up or travel somewhere with a few close friends
overall you probably just need to find someone that actually thinks sex is something to be treasured, but you probably already know that
tldr; you sound pretty down to earth and if you keep at it/don't lose hope you'll probably be sucessful
just don't give up and stop caring about how you look or something because that's pretty universally unattractive and chases people off
It's always good to address someone by there name. Well I'm president of the film club at my school. Which I'm into movies. I went Electric Zoo last year which was awesome and I'm planning on seeing The Weekend this weekend lol. I enjoy partying, chilling at home, go to the bars every now and again, and get bogged down by school work every week day. How about you?
u like anything on here?
i could probably find some things i like in there but i don't really have the patience to look through it all
i'm pretty picky when it comes to soundcloud-tier shit though like
my intense music interest lies heavily with 70s-80s stuff
my favorite genres are darkwave, deathrock, minimal synth, new wave, post-punk and punk, sludge/doom, and garage-punk/garage-rock
idk if you have last.fm you can look at this for reference i suppose, recently listened to tracks or whatever
clean, ill toke to it.
I'll look through that later, you seem to have interesting musical taste but I gotta make an account and shit zz. gnight
Thanks, I appreciate it. I just want to get my groove back, I feel like if I could just get someone irl interested my confidence would spike. Just want one guy to single me out of the crowd of hot chicks and flirt with me, ya know? But thats what any girl wants tho really.
Just gotta take it day by day. Its rough, especially if you can't/dont see improvement immediately but just gotta keep chugging along I guess.
Yeah, I did.
Our skype conversations went fine, even great. You even seemed cool but then acted like a bitch once we actually talked.
I've complimented you and shitposted you, yes. THere is no dichotomy between the two that wouldn't make sense for me to do so. It is onyl that way for you because you perceive that my goal is to endear myself to you, lel.
>fun of him for acting like he had better taste than anyone
That was you, not me.
>pretty pathetic human bean dude
Same as everyone else.
>acting like our skype conversations were shit
Lel, read some of our skype conversations. You were enjoying them. What delusion.
I do genuinely hate you now. Congratulations.
I read this post out of context - as a bored lurking anon might do.
Such trainwreck exchange between you and femanon. Such cringy skype (whoever pic related was getting messages from)
I'm 26, have car house, missiles virgin. Been on a few dates but I'm just so damn shy I need a dominate chick to just take charge of the pace. I even had a girl in my bed and she out my hand on her chest and I still didn't know what the fuck to do
christians are generally just as promiscuous
catholic school was straight up slutty for me
the only reason i've found mormons are slightly less so is the full indoctrination thing
gotta find the right blend of crazy though
LA anon here and I can attest to this. For going out and having fun there's a lot of girls, but nothing date worthy.
26 here femanon if you were looking for locals to talk to.
the bra itself is strappy
obviously it isn't under my boob or you'd be seeing the nipple
man idk what the fuck youre talking about yet again, I never said anything about our skype conversations were shit
I said you were quiet and reserved over voice
I also specifically mentioned using the same level of profanity, sarcasm, and generally fucking around/prodding you with a stick that I reserve for anyone, which is what you're mistakenly referring to in attempt to divert something onto me
also never said or even slightly implied that your goal was to endear yourself to me, in fact it was quite the fucking opposite since I implied you must have some serious kind of problem to obsess over someone enough to shitpost about them whenever you fucking see them, and that you're probably doing it purely for your own amusement, dick head
I feel like it might be the lack of confidence that causes that wallflower quality. It's strange, really. I used to be uglier but acted like someone I wasn't, and that got everyone liking me so much. Then I threw off that facade, and just let it be known that I'm actually quiet and uneasy, like some female NEET
So yeah I'm still a virgin and it's funny because I'm told online that I look ok but irl uglier girls get a lot more game and I get no game because I'm invisible. I get a kick out of startling people though, whenever I walk up to them or speak up, because they'veforgotten that I'm even there. Maybe I can become a spy or assassin
I wish I could tell you how to build up that confidence but I can't
Sure, I mean I'm always down for some conversation or just talking about it I guess.
If you wanna email socanonthrowaway@gmail
Well, I don't do nudes or pics really but If you wanna chat see above.
Yeah, I know. Thats why I said I'm probably just trying to blame him for my own bullshit. Guys don't wanna approach the shy, sad, scared looking girl and deep down I know it.
But I feel ya. Everyone always says "Oh just be more confident anon" Like,
>wowee all I ever needed was someone to tell me to be more confident. Golly Gee all my problems are solved by that one statement it was so easy.
So much easier said than done. Takes a long ass time to put a broken self esteem back together.
It's just never felt... Right, I was kissless until recently
>our skype conversations were shit
You act like all I did was harass you.
>same level of profanity, sarcasm, and generally fucking
Do you honestly think I'd be mad over insignificant things? I poke and proud far more than you, ofc I wouldn't care about that. Maybe you were defensive and overreacted. I'd like to think that. You are closed off.
>implied that your goal was to endear yourself to me
Then there is no reason why what I did wouldn't make sense. I can like your aesthetics and dislike who you are.
>don't do nudes or pics really
>just be more confident
Do things you can be proud of everyday. Stop thinking negatively about yourself, and your life. Stop thinking of the past or future, become present of now and do stuff now that will enable you to be happy in the future.
>broken self esteem
dw bby, you're still beautiful :)
>normies think their self esteem is broken
What pitiful human beings. Raise yourself up
You are literally my dream girl. Those beautiful large dreamy hazel eyes, cute dimpled cheeks and lovely smile, a perfect chin to cup under my finger as I left your head up and our lips lock under a starry night...
yea i've been touched before but never fucked
no, i act like all you do is harass me here, which is what you do
honestly, if you don't understand the difference between disliking someone and going out of your way to harass them every single time you see them somewhere, you're severely mentally handicapped
>ofc i wouldn't care about that
well you posted the screenshot like you did, so
also it's really weird to me that in this reply you quoted me.. quoting you
and again, i never said our skype conversations were shit, you've said that twice now, on your own and the only time i typed the same string of words was when i said i NEVER said or implied that
anyway, whatever, you're really fucking weird please leave me alone lol
im in the same boat as you then been touched but never had sex.
although i have no idea how to get a gf or get laid so i guess i just have to do it through blind luck and stupidity.
>posted the screenshot like you did
That isn't even in the context of what I was saying I wouldn't care about. Usually I'm just defending reality since she has no one to protect her.
>all I do is harass me, which is what you do
>our skype conversations weren't shit
>leave me alone lol
this has been going on since like last night and at this point none of his responses make sense idk im just done honestly
tldr; he lurks soc like crazy and makes a point of harassing me whenever he sees me anywhere, and this shit happens
yea i cant help you there
They're not colour contacts...
Haha thanks but I'm taken :')
Hahah I hope I don't... I certainly don't think so! And yeah I'm definitely the lucky one out of my boyfriend and I, he's amazing :3
Hahaha no, I've got no bloody idea what's going on with those lines, never noticed them before... Here's a different photo where my eyes look a bit more normal :')
u ma'am are full of shit because i have seen this photo before and ur eyes were not that big and im also pretty sure your eyelashes werent either - you used to post it in rate-themed threads all the time
stop shopping ur eyes
that or you've recently started using one of those weird ass makeup apps that like
does stuff to ur eyes
google does not automatically photoshop your eyes you silly goose
It "auto awesome"s photos, is that not one of the things it does? Anyway I think this is the original before I uploaded it anywhere so they should look normal here...
I store all my photos on Google photos so I can save room on my physical memory (I have like 100GB of Google drive storage or something I think from when I got a chromebook), sometimes it applies "auto awesome" to them, which is some sort of automatic image enhancement and effects thing, which I guess it must have done to those
u want to hate fuck me because i posted lime time?
kinda, but i'll be curled up in bed soon either passed the fuck out or messaging people for a bit
i did not sleep at all last night
no but its responses like that, that make me want to.
dont get me wrong i dont hate you or anything, if i knew how to describe the urge behind it correctly, i probably wouldnt be a virgin.
im sure in context that means more than just posting. but ok.
just be you
remember that time i fell asleep on a call with you? probably not righttt...
you may remember me from this pic that my friend horribly modified