>>22768620 like shit. but first of all, she wouldn't know. second, it wouldn't affect my sentimental relationship. i'm just scared she could tell her. also i'd feel pretty guilty too, but i'm very self conscious, and i know that it's just a kiss and it means nothing.
>>22768555 >>22768598 There's nothing to talk about. Either you're okay with cheating or you're not. If you know you like your girl and you want to fuck around, you're a cheater. If you can't stand the idea, you're not. You do it and keep it secret or you don't do it at all. Nothing will change if she doesn't know, and vice versa.
>>22768789 if you want to fuck this girl, dump your girlfriend and guck her so it's guilt free. why be so shady to someone that's supposed to be your own personal human? that's the one person you're not supposed to fuck over. like a cunt.
>>22768862 If she finds out it will be all over. And in the end cheaters usually get caught. Then it will spread like wildfire that you are a cheat, and most women won't want to touch you, and the women that want to touch you won't trust you. You're setting yourself up for a bitter future.
OP, I think you should bring the subject up with your girlfriend. As a girl, if my boyfriend came to me, telling me he knew a girl who wanted him and that he found attractive, I'd ask to watch and probably join. I'd see the love and trust he had for me, and I'd want to show my appreciation. Not to mention, I'd have fun too, of course. On the other hand, if he went behind my back and I ever found out, we'd be DONE.
>>22768903 this is fucking disgusting and will not happen. stop >>22768928 if you really love your girlfriend you need to wipe this throught from your head honestly thinking about it will only lead you to make more pitiful excuses like the responses you've made above and eventually you'll cave
honestly, if you're even remotely considering this or making these dumb fucking validations like "its just sex i don't love this other girl" you probably don't love your girlfriend anyway, and i honestly hope she finds out that you're an unfaithful fuck and drops you before you have the chance to hurt her
>>22768928 Well you're a piece of shit then. It's alright for you to fuck around, but not her? Hope she finds out and dumps your sorry ass. >>22768862 And if you really think this, why would it matter if she fucked around? Just another hypocritical piece of shit.
>>22768949 i hate those people just insulting me, i didn't even do anything. i'm just expressing a thought that's oppressing me. it's a paradox that hurts me. i'm only 21, and i see girls everywhere, and the idea that i can't fuck with any of them just because i have a girlfriend really hurts me. however, i've never done it, and i probably never would. it's not even about love, it's my fucking human animal nature. my sex drive is also really big, and i can't help it, but i have a lot of strength too. i'm just discussing about this, i'm not being a piece of shit.
>>22768976 you are being a piece of shit you're making excuses for yourself like it'd be acceptable for you to do it and in the same breath saying that it'd fucking destroy you to even hear your girlfriend talking about this shit
so either stop talking about it/thinking about it and be a good person, or dump your fucking girlfriend because you clearly don't want to be in a relationship and you clearly care little for her
it isnt normal for you to feel this way or to be considering these things, the rest of us have no problem remaining loyal or simply ending a relationship if we're unsatisfied, because that's how this shit works
>>22768976 Just fuck your girlfriend. If sex is just sex why does it matter who it's with, why can't it be your gf? If sex is just sex why throwaway love for it? You're a manchild. Grow up. My Father had me at age 21, and has been with my mother ever since. Stop making excuses. You're a grown man. The only reason the girl want to fuck you is because you are a forbidden fruit, and you have a gf. You have to realize this.
>>22769005 this girl doesn't know i'm "forbidden fruit". do you really think a girl just wants to fuck for that reason? or just because she's in love? girls can be like men too. also do you think your dad or mother never cheated on eachother?
>>22769021 They NEVER cheated on one another. They were both Virgins before meeting each other. How dare you even project your shitty scum mentality onto my parents. If she doesn't know you have a gf, you are hurting her too by cheating with her. Even most promiscuous girls have standards. If she finds out you have a gf, she will not keep silent.
I have a girlfriend, I told her how I want sex with one of our friends, we've been trying to negotiate terms but it would hurt my girl. Even though she's given me permission to, I haven't because it'd hurt her.
I've kissed, cuddled, and shared a bed with the girl in question before, though my girlfriend has gotten upset every time, but says it's okay because she is allowing it.
It's a hot button issue we're still talking about and negotiation privileges. I think she'll tell me to put a stop to it, or allow it to continue.
It's created a lot of nights of us crying over it and changing our minds though, it's a strain on the relationship to even think about it.
At least I'm honest with my girlfriend. I didn't give out the full story and don't feel a need to, I'm not going to bang our friend, it's been to much strain on our relationship, we're just going to be happy with each other.
It's a delicate topic, it either goes well or goes bad. A part of me wishes I hadn't ever brought up the topic that started it all, but it's an experience, and we're just going to get through this phase and continue loving each other.
>>22769195 I'm not sure, it started with a talk about threesomes, and then my girl didn't really want to, but I still liked the idea of banging somebody new.
I'm not sure what I would have done besides just try to repress the idea. Though I'm sorta glad that it's out in the open and that we can discuss it. The tears are not enjoyable, but the make up sex afterwards is quite nice and we both recognize that.
>>22768705 You'll have a lot of chances to have sex if you keep your gf. You say you don't want to "waste" such an occasion, but if you fuck that other girl you're just wasting a good relationship. And that's way more important and rare than sex, Anon.
Also, you're going to get way better sex with your gf, since you won't feel guilty about it. And last but not least, sex is not that rare, you don't have to take every chance you get at sticking your dick in somewhere.
You're just horny man, have sex or some good faps and your mind will clear. Have a great fap, and reflect on this just aftrr cumming. I'm serious. It helps with thinking straight.
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