>talking with girl about Harvest Moon after work
>talk about romance dynamics of the game
>conversation shifts to why I'm a virgin and don't have a girlfriend
>"because I'm a loser"
>"then I guess I'm a loser too"
>"wait, how's that possible? You're so beautiful though"
>she starts talking about how she wants a casual relationship and she'd be okay with me
>"look, do you realize what you're saying?"
>"umm, yes I do, do you?"
>"so is that a yes or a no?"
>"listen, believe me, I would LOVE to, but out of respect for you I will have to decline"
>she says she has something to do and leaves first
I feel I became a more mature person, all thanks to a conversation triggered by Harvest Moon.
Did I do good, /v/?
>Someone is okay with having casual sex with you.
>Decline out of 'respect'.
Believe it or not OP, humans like sex.
Some of us are fine with having 'fun' without the strings attached.
You 'declining' out of respect isn't actually respectful since you're pretty much telling her the way she's feeling is wrong when it isn't.
Not saying it's good to take advantage of someone. Assuming she's old enough to think on her own, then her wanting to randomly have sex isn't really taking advantage of her since she consents to the situations.
You're not 'more mature' OP.
You're just an idiot.
>Out of respect for you, I'm going to make your decisions for you by denying your request even though that's what I would like because I don't think you have the mental capacity or proper judgment to make this decision.
White knights are truly the saddest of all betas.
You. FUCKED. UP.
You truly are a loser. You haven't matured at all. You didn't want to experience a change, so you will forever be stuck with your situation. A loser.
>tl;dr: Not your blog. You fucked up.
>tfw she wasnt a virgin just, she was only attempting to throw you a bone
>tfw you completely fucked up any friendship/relationship potention hereon out
nice op, I sincerely hope you're gay
>see harvest moon pic
>about to ask if the game is any good because harvest moon DS is a fucking abomination
>get a fucking blog instead
Fuck this gay earth. Can anyone tell me if the tale of two towns is worth a
You still lose nothing. Just try the game and see if you like it, don't ask if other people like it.
The only time it's acceptable to get an outside opinion is if you're paying money for the game.
you can win the lottery and get a million dollars
you can work your way up to a high paying job
you can invent the next big thing and become a billionaire
but you're still living on borrowed time just like anybody else
Two towns is fucking garbage. I've played every HM since SNES, including the Game Boy games (2 and 3 were surprisingly good), and I can honestly say that Two Towns was the most boring, soulless and not-fun Harvest Moon I have played. No interesting characters, development of every single thing is time locked with a time limit, and the main focal point of the mountain is lifeless and barren. I would recommend any single Harvest Moon ten to one above this game.
You clearly don't understand girls at all.
If she's not just throwing you a bone and is really a loser virgin like you, then you have just done horrible damage to her self-confidence.
She wants to bone you even though you talked a bunch about some boring waifu video game.
What you said just sounds like an excuse, and that your compliments were only said out of pity. It's literally the equivalent of getting friendzoned by a girl. "Oh, you're such a nice guy why don't you have a gf, oh but I only love you like a brother :)"
You did not become a more mature person at all. All you did was deny both of you a fun good time, the possibility that maybe she was interested in you romantically, and likely caused her irreparable emotional damage.
The truth is you are just scared and pushed her away. I bet a loser like you has watched NGE, didn't you learn anything from the hedgehog's dilemma and other themes of the show?
OP is a faggot and I don't feel like making a new thread so this'll do.
This shit comes out in a month, anyone think it'll be any good?
>"listen, believe me, I would LOVE to, but out of respect for you I will have to decline"
Who said this?
If this was you, then good job.
Pussy is fucking overrated and a time and money sink. It also ruins great friendships.
Source: my handholdless, kissless virgin self.
It's supposed to be the true next version of Harvest Moon so it should be fairly decent.
Maybe it'll even be the best one yet if they somehow magically got their shit together.
Looks like the best recent HM by a mile.
>farming looks fun
>none of the build-your-own-town bullshit from ANB
>people apparently have more dialogue and aren't like robots
>you can visit others farms on multiplayer
That was good outcome, 'casual relationships' are very bad for anyone looking for an actual relationship, and a lot of people would be too pussy to say no in that situation even if it wasn't what they wanted.
It's such a bad idea anyway, it's basically a girlfriend you let fuck other people, fuck no
>QT working at gamestop
>Always strike up a conversation with her
>Always laughs at my jokes
>Brings up how awesome it is that i'm like the only guy who picks up games like Harvest Moon and Nintendogs+Cats and how she loves those games to.
>Never made a move
>To this day haunts me.
who said anything about doing something important? Time should be spent doing things you like(hobbies, entertainment, relaxation), things that are absolutely necessary to your quality of life(sleep, eating, errands, hygiene), or things where you are compensated for your time(Job).
If you waste both time AND money on something you did not enjoy that is not necessary to your life, than this is a major deficit. You will never get that time back. You paid someone for a product that wasted your time. It did not provide you any benefit at all.
the perceived importance of what you do with your time doesn't factor into this at all, unless doing important things is how you enjoy spending your time or gets you paid.
Sometimes people can't be assed to try games they know are good, let alone try games they dont know about
Patience is a finite resource and even starting a game can sometimes take a lot of it
Shitting on people who don't want casual sex is being a mindless hedonist
There is nothing wrong with only wanting sex from a relationship instead of being a desperate faggot who fucks every women who gives him the attention
There's a reason you faggots are always so defensive about this shit and have to shit on everyone who has different values to you
Not him but you sound like a ass ravaged faggot right now.
Yea you have the right to abstain, but abstaining isn't the mature mature answer comparatively. You copted out because of some moral you have or out of fear. (sounds like fear if you honestly think it is wrong because your not good enough)
Not that other guy, but nowhere in the OP does it even imply that OP only wanted a relationship. What he says is that HE WOULD LOVE TO, he respects her too much to have a casual relationship. OP is as beta as they come.
You're the one on the defensive here. That guy just said that he was actually inconsiderate by taking down the offer.
And yeah you should get as much sex as you can within reason. Sex is GOOD.
/pol/ didnt invent shit. But I can guarantee you if someone on 4chan says hedonism, or degeneracy or any of those buzzwords they love so much, I mean, it's not hard to put 2 and 2 together is it
>abstaining isn't the mature mature answer comparatively
Yes it is, that girl is clearly not mature.
>What he says is that HE WOULD LOVE TO, he respects her too much to have a casual relationship
And what's wrong with that? That girl clearly doesn't respect herself enough. He did her a favor. You guys are being selfish.
Good job OP. Wait for the woman God wants you to be with and get married and start a family one day. Raise up Grandchildren and kick back in a rocking chair on the porch of your large rural mansion.
There are different interpretations about what sex can mean to someone, but there is nothing objective that makes casual, non-procreational sex a big deal.
>That girl clearly doesn't respect herself enough
How can you reach that conclusion from one piece of a story? For all we know she had a rough couple of relationships and just wanted to have some fun. You can't judge somebody by a tidbit of dialog.
If OP had told her he wasn't up to it, that would have been fine in my book. But he used her as the excuse. That is completely inconsiderate of her feelings.
Tell them to fuck off and find a woman who is actually worth shit
No one wants a woman who is in 'casual relationships' with several other men (Always proposed by the woman, because the woman is the one who can actually take advantage of the 'casual' part), and there's a reason
Of course there is something wrong with cheating you moron, If you commit to somebody (or lead them to believe you are exclusively with them) and have sex with somebody else you are harming them. Open relationships are a completely different ballgame.
>engaging in casual sex
What the hell are you people even doing here? I only have sex with women I've dated for years and married because I actually like a fucking challenge, none of this hand holding into the bedroom shit. This generation, man.
>Always played HM on the GC with my older sis
>Older sis passed away a year ago
>Get really sad any time I remember this game
Fuck you OP