So I met this guy cashiering, and I instantly liked him. Flirted, checked him out, then after he left, an hour later he came back, went through my line again buying something he forgot, only this time we made a lot of eye contact. Like his eyes just drew me in. I don't even remember what he looked like except a few minor details and I would probably recognize him if I saw him again. I remember his eyes like, almost exact. I can't explain it, but it was like our souls connected. What happened here? I barely remember any of our conversation either time he was in, and barely what he looked like. His eyes were a bright orange amber color, pic related. I feel unnaturally bonded to him, and I don't even know his name.
I'm posting in Paranormal because it seemed like there was something really off about the whole thing, not because i'm whipped over some guy I don't even fucking know you stupid sack of shit.
You are over thinking this. You already admitted to be instantly attracted to him. So of course you feel connected to him if you two were staring at each other, the second time around. You crush wayyy to hard and wayyy to easy. Eye contact creates attraction.
It was my honest opinion Sorry if it didn't fit your narrative of some paranormal vampire demon guy.
And you're rude. Probably why he didn't offer his number. Maybe his spidey senses told him you were a bit on the crazy side.
Ummmm OMG you guys are tots so mean. All I did was post about how I eye fucked my soul mate. OMG for real I mean I did just meet him but I knew I knew we were meant to be together. Like seriously only one for me forever and always. GEEZ maybe you guys should get of the computer and go get a Bae instead of demeaning me. GEEZ CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE GUYS FO REAL!!!
It's X. Who the fuck cares if someone else is rude.
I could care less. Honestly. I got a weird vibe from the whole thing, and I go off of my gut feeling. You people do remember this is the Paranormal board, right? Go back to /b/ if you want to act like a fat loser.
Ive had a similar experience.
Idk what causes these experiences to feel so different to regular experiences but the do feel radiant and packed full of energy.
maybe I missed my soul mate,
but at least i learnt a lesson.
I was in a moment where something i truly yearned for was right at my fingertips and it was magic... the moment seemed pregnant with possibility and everything was vivid in its interaction with all else. But instead of just being in the moment resolving to persue her ... i wimped out big time, I thought back to the times i had been rejected and the magic of the moment flickered and dimmed, the feeling of inadequacy i was remembering seemed to crawl out of my memories and manifest in the real world.
it was a lesson i wont forget, the the huna principal of Makia :
Energy flows where attention goes.
I have this ability. it's a spiritual thing ('spiritual beauty', an ability to radiate beautiful energy which especially comes through in the eyes) - notice the gaze of a lot of high level occultists - but ironically it's also something puas as well as cult leaders sometimes cultivate to some degree. really artistic people always have it.
it's a trippy ability to have. it's like a lazer beam I can turn on, and I have a masculine polarity and more feminine polarity version of it, but sometimes I forget to control it and will have women staring at me as I go by and men straight up calling me beautiful in public and trying to take me home. I just got back from a party and I was just being friendly and casually vibing with people and pretty soon a gay couple were just really actively trying to get me to come home with them. shit like this almost happens every other day, I'm not even joking.
there was even something like this in the Bible. somewhere in the old testament - these messengers of God visit one of God's followers in a rather corrupt city, and the men found these messengers so beautiful they surrounded the guy's house demanding said messengers come out so they could fuck them.
I know a lot of artists with this quality, men and women of such profound spiritual beauty you feel intoxicated when they stand near you and look you in the eye. you actually feel this field of warm light envelop you. I have something like this that people respond to as well. even homeless people constantly comment on my energy, or psychics. weird shit.
OP some people have a talents in the art of "animal magnetism" or "mesmerism". Another possibility is "soul to soul communication".
These things you describe, they can happen to anyone given the right conditions. But it is somewhat rare and most people will not experience this.
It is the natural, raw power and light of the soul emanating through the eyes and from the chest. The frequency, warmth, colour and amplitude is slightly different in everyone as it is their own unique personal identity.
How you are able "sense" it or receive it, is based upon your own receptivity and openness to mentally spiritual things. This is usually beyond the conscious control of ourselves. In most people it is controlled by the autonomic, mind-body system. The ability can be nurtured and eventually learned to control consciously but take a lot of practice and experience even for the most gifted ones.
It's like we are all walking around with transceiver radios inside of us and if we are tuned in to the right frequency, sometimes we will pick up a communication from someone else on the same frequency.
Some very special people have developed their radios to function as "scanners" where they can scan up and down the dial and pick up frequencies on any channel.
Obviously this can be used for good or ill, so caution is sometimes needed.
the eyes are the window to the soul. what you felt was a previous bond you created with this soul in a previous life.
going to second this
OP there is nothing paranormal about what happened
your body wants you to reproduce. Your brain interpreted this guy as a good mating partner. That's all.
I highly recommend against reproducing until you get a firm grasp on these basic processes of the brain.
there should be a licence to breed.
Look OP lets keep this straight.
I know you believe this is an special connection, but this is actually pretty standard and a normal thing to go trough.
I was 19 when it happened to me, interesting process honestly. Uncontrollable feelings for someone and you can't even remember what they look like. It laughable now that I think about it.
I would say pursue the opportunity for a relationship. If not wait around. It will happen again.
Being drawn to certain people in your life usually means you have some sort of past connection with them.
For example, past lovers can become father/son or mother/daughter in the now.
Lovers could have been good friends in past lives, and your worst enemy could now be your best friend.
As weird as this concept is, souls tend to gravitate to one another eternally, and will use eachother for their own personal growth.
Yes, there are 12 major soul types, every local play which becomes emotional tends to blend them as opposed to stare at the reflective soultype.
Such is the beginnings of genetics, chemistry, family, friendship and ultimately romantic chemistry.
Thanks for the helpful comments. Helped.
See post above. I don't remember exactly what he looks like.
Not brunette. Why would you think it's you? Similar experience?
really interesting concept.
I'm not trying to bash on you, but you just happenned to feel atracted to this guy. "Love at first sight" as many people like to call it.
There's nothing wrong with it, but it is not paranormal at all, unless you believe in soulmates and stuff like that.
OP, you two clicked, your chakras, some to all sync and then you feel this connection because you're literally connected.
Yours and his Aura extend and meet, and they sync like two forks placed within each other they just fit.
Its rare and you should treasure people who you have this connection with.
It can be humor sex or intellectual.
People change so you've got a varying amount of time connecting to others.
DO YOU FUCKING SEE TITS IN THIS DIAGRAM
I DIDNT FUCKING THINK SO
You had a hormonal response to an attractive male.
Are you autistic or just retarded?
>I can't remember anything about him lol
>But he is totes my soul mate
You thought he was hot and you wanted to fuck him. That is all.
mfw i'll never meet a girl that will feel these feels for me.
why even live?
>I was like sooooo into this guy
>this is paranormal
Love at first sight is your childhood trauma recognizing the trauma of another and meshing with it. Its a pull hoping you can heal yourself no the same fire that hurt you. If you ever experience love at first sight, RUN the other way.
Holy shit /x/ is so bad because of posts like these. Nice one OP you really took a steamy, massive stinky shit on this one. There is literally nothing paranormal aboit what happened to you.
>but muh girly romance luv magick
Nothing. Paranormal. Please delete this thread.
I've had this too. It was her eyes, it looked like mine, as though she was me, but somebody else. I walked passed her in the street, and then just click. She looked me dead straight on.
It felt like familiarity.
He's 600% right. If you haven't realised this in your own relationships you are doomed to repeat it. Read Skinner & Cleese 'Families and How to Survive Them' for this from a psychiatrist. We can't see our own wounds, so are blind to those faults in others therefore squelchy squelchy.
I read this entire thread and feel like I wasted some serious 15 minutes.
I demand one tit placed on a countertop. Nothing else.
Its me the cashier i'll eyebang you later if that's cool with you but you must do me this favor.
oh uh its for my photography project about the de-sexualization of the body as it is. Having tits placed on inane objects to further cement the idea that girlnips aren't sexy as fuck all the time constantly.
I follow back